Guest Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Met a girl a couple of months ago. We've met each others families, fooled around a few times, talk to each other every other day or so. We're both divorced in our forties, no kids, good jobs, and get along okay. Here's my problem where I need some advice, I seem to be doing all the asking out, paying for dinners, and planning things to do. She's more than willing to go along but never really initiaties anything on her own. I never get the phone call out of the blue just to say hello. She also never follows up on any promises she makes, for example, she was ranting and raving about a book I hadn't read. She promised to bring me a copy she had and I've never heard another word about it. A couple of things she was supposed to remind me about and if I didn't have a good memory I could never rely on her to tell me. I like her and enjoy her companionship but I just don't get the feeling deep down inside me that she's into me. How would I know whether she is or not? After going through a divorce, my instincts for relationships are not the most trustworthy.
max003 Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Your not being played, your just failing to capture her attention. Women of a certain age expect to be treated well, a man in his forties should know how to do it. So she forgot to lend you a book? So what, did you expect her to get up, drive home and bring it back for you?. Maybe she doesnt call you because she's busy, maybe she's nervious too, given that your both divorced. Maybe she doesnt want anything more serious then that. If she didnt like you she wouldnt be spending her time with you, women date men they like and avoid the ones they dont
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