kaneplacegirl Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Hello I am not sure what to do a guy friend of mine just stopped emailing and calling. Everything seemed ok. I am not sure if I should just leave him alone or what. I supposed to visit him in May. Help! thanks
Vertex Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Send him an email and hope he replies... don't do what I did and continually insist that he emails you regularly or he will be driven away.
Author kaneplacegirl Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 I send him an email last week and decide to take a break. I don't think nagging is the answer. I just lost my dad from cancer so I am finding this harder than usual.
destination_unknown Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 its hard when you have lost somebody so close you you and then other things start to go wrong on top of that. I will lose my dad to cancer sometime soon too, im very sorry for your loss. you know, maybe he just isnt sure how to talk to you knowing that youre grieving for your dad. some people find it very hard to know how to comfort etc. so kinda pull away. which is sad, because there isnt much they can say to make you feel either better or worse, but they cant bring themselves to talk to you for some reason. anyway, be taking care of you and hopefully you have the support of the rest of your family and friends. i guess you gotta just see if he replies to the mail and if he doesnt then dont worry too much about it if you can help it. again, sorry about losing your dad.
Author kaneplacegirl Posted March 23, 2006 Author Posted March 23, 2006 Thanks he has talked to me since the cancer so I think he has just moved on! very sad
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