blutarsky Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Dated a girl for a while, then broke up last summer. Started dating a new girl who I discovered knew old girl New girl called a mutual friend of theirs to find out about me and old girl. Old girl calls new girl to talk about me. I have had no real contact with old girl. A couple of emails back in the fall were met with threats and rage. Any thoughts?
prfrogkisser Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Yikes!! This all sounds like another episode from th O.C. Why not ask the new girl what your ex said? What kind of a friendship they have?. I see no good reasoning for the ex to call the new girl unless she wants to start drama. It all depends on what terms you guys broke up and if she is still bitter and upset about it. Threats and rage emails say plenty. Some people dont know how to deal with rejection. Be honest with the new girl and expect her to tell you how she feels about all this and go from there. GOOD LUCK!!!
NTB Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 end it with the new girl and find somebody who doesn't know your x's
Author blutarsky Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 we did not break up on good terms at all...really all over a big misunderstanding. She broke up with me. She didn't throw me under the bus to new girl....which shocks me. New girl is semi ok, but cautious. As for finding non-friends...i thought I had. SMall world. Any chance the old girl just wants to keep me on the line Just in case?
salmagundi Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Even if they're the one to dump you, territoriality dies hard. If when a girl (or guy) leaves someone, they rarely like to see them move on. So yeah, your ex might be playing some game but it doesnt matter because you've moved on and your new gf should put you before her and your ex will just have to move on too. Just give your new gf the whole story on the exso she knows its done between you guys and so she knows you're being honest with her. salmagundi
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