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a4a,

I think why most people out down wealthier people for having/buying whatever they want is part jealous and part bitterness.

 

If Alpha statistc is right and the meduim income for a household is $45,000 that means a lot of people are not making it. The stuggle to be able to have a decent place to live and eat and god forbid something should happen.

 

Most of these people work as hard as wealthier people but they might not have a the right skills or education to get a higher paying job. and they can't afford to go to college or better thier education so they are stuck in this never ending poverty loop.

 

I can see being pretty pissed off working 40-50 hours a week and not being able to afford food and housing etc..

 

I read a study that said the majoiry of american jobs are either as cashier or retial workers they all make below $20,000

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well then she was an exception. there are always exceptions to everything. but in general, I'd say that people with money tend to have more class than people without money. And if they the rich don't have class within their person then they can always buy it. Class, per se, is really more a mindset than anything but it is embellished by the material goods one has and the people with whom they hang.

 

Maybe this is because I live in the South and am confronted with cheesy, classless good ol' boys with family money.

 

My oldest sister's H's family is like that. Obsecenely wealthy racist rednecks.

 

I suppose I also judge people on a different data set than you do. Whenever I see an older man with an expensive car, I think :

 

(a) he has a small penis

(b) he has erectile dysfunction

© he is balding and insecure about it

(d) all of the above.

 

I've been hit on many times by cheesy older men with money. I think it's something about my high-pitched voice. I dunno. One guy still calls me, known him for years, and tries to convince me to get out of relationships because he can take care of me.

 

Yeah. um. no.

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$40000 or $45000 is quite a respectable wage - I guess unless you live in Manhattan. Nobody "needs" $80K to live unless they "need" a 6000 sq. foot house, three or four vehicles, a couple plasma TVs in every room, and a chef to cook for you.

 

You can buy a perfectly respectable house most places for 250K (and some places, a lot less) which means a mortgage of less than 2K a month. Unless you eat pure gold at every meal the rest of your expenses should take not much more than $1200 a month but let's toss in another $300 - that's still just $42K.

 

I can't imagine how anyone could think $80K is a bare minimum to survive on!

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Whenever I see an older man with an expensive car, I think :

(a) he has a small penis

(b) he has erectile dysfunction

© he is balding and insecure about it

(d) all of the above.

I just think..."boy, theres and old man with an expensive car."... BTW, most expensive cars are sold to older men. They're the only ones who can afford them. The average age of a Corvette owner is 55.

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Down here, it's boats. The bigger boat, the louder, the brighter, the more likely the dude is overcompensating for something.

 

Whenever I was little and we saw them on the river or at the beach, my sisters and I called them "old man crotch rockets".

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I just think..."boy, theres and old man with an expensive car."... BTW, most expensive cars are sold to older men. They're the only ones who can afford them. The average age of a Corvette owner is 55.

 

I want to know the secret of their success..... clue me in with a little info so I can get a car like that myself if I choose to.

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I suppose I also judge people on a different data set than you do. Whenever I see an older man with an expensive car, I think :

 

(a) he has a small penis

(b) he has erectile dysfunction

© he is balding and insecure about it

(d) all of the above.

 

Why do you assume those things? Just curious...

 

Ever occur to you that PERHAPS he just likes the car he has and that it has zero to do with what you assume?

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Down here, it's boats. The bigger boat, the louder, the brighter, the more likely the dude is overcompensating for something.

 

Whenever I was little and we saw them on the river or at the beach, my sisters and I called them "old man crotch rockets".

 

maybe they just love boats...... it is not always about overcompensation.

I would love to have a crotch rocket :laugh: to play with...... what a hoot that could be. Beats the hell out of rowing upstream :p

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Why do you assume those things? Just curious...

 

Ever occur to you that PERHAPS he just likes the car he has and that it has zero to do with what you assume?

 

It was a joke.

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It was a joke.

 

A very illogical one at that...

 

Then again... wouldn't surprise me if there are women who actually think that way.

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A very illogical one at that...

 

Then again... wouldn't surprise me if there are women who actually think that way.

 

This is what gets me, SF. You didn't have to add that, and it just makes me irritated that you did. It makes me get frustrated when I try to get along with you because I know you don't try, so I feel like why should I? Then I put you on ignore.

 

Jokes are often illogical.

 

What's the difference between Scotland and Heaven?

 

In heaven they say, "Hey you! Get off my cloud!"

In Scotland they say, "Hey McCloud, get off my ewe!"

 

That didn't make sense. If you had a sense of humor, however, it would be funny. Well, my dentist thought so. And my ex-fiancee.

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This is what gets me, SF. You didn't have to add that, and it just makes me irritated that you did. It makes me get frustrated when I try to get along with you because I know you don't try, so I feel like why should I? Then I put you on ignore.

 

Jokes are often illogical.

 

What's the difference between Scotland and Heaven?

 

In heaven they say, "Hey you! Get off my cloud!"

In Scotland they say, "Hey McCloud, get off my ewe!"

 

That didn't make sense. If you had a sense of humor, however, it would be funny. Well, my dentist thought so. And my ex-fiancee.

 

Perhaps my sense of humour doesn't *jive* with yours. Does that make me *bad* or *deficient*? I would hope not.

 

You probably wouldn't *get* my humour but that's fine... I don't have any expectations in that regard.

 

Anyway... sorry if I offended you.

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I declare a thread hi jack...... via personal pissing match!

 

blow whistle now....... go to your corners! :lmao:

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I declare a thread hi jack...... via personal pissing match!

 

blow whistle now....... go to your corners! :lmao:

 

:lmao:

:lmao:

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Oh DARN...guess I'll put the popcorn away!:laugh:

 

I'll eat it... hell, it's almost lunchtime anyway. :)

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I'll eat it... hell, it's almost lunchtime anyway. :)

 

Hey the principle "characters" don't eat the popcorn...get back in the ring!:lmao:

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Hey the principle "characters" don't eat the popcorn...get back in the ring!:lmao:

 

Too bad. I'll take it anyway. :)

 

It's called *going against the grain* and *doing what isn't expected*. :D

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Too bad. I'll take it anyway. :)

 

It's called *going against the grain* and *doing what isn't expected*. :D

 

 

How did another thread turn into a "lets discuss Smoochie thread"....... getting a tad old my friend and to get back on topic.... it lacks class. :p

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How did another thread turn into a "lets discuss Smoochie thread"....... getting a tad old my friend and to get back on topic.... it lacks class. :p

 

Oh sorry... we'll just shine the spotlight square in your face... there ya go...

 

Feel better now? :)

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Oh sorry... we'll just shine the spotlight square in your face... there ya go...

 

Feel better now? :)

 

Go eat Smooch..I think your blood sugar levels have dropped to bitchy levels.

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Oh sorry... we'll just shine the spotlight square in your face... there ya go...

 

Feel better now? :)

 

The whole of LS is not about you Smooch.... you hi jack threads and turn them into your personal stomping grounds. It is getting old. IMHO. Not a positive thing to do at all. I say this with kindness.

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Oh sorry... we'll just shine the spotlight square in your face... there ya go...

 

Feel better now? :)

It is her thread SF

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