Guest Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 i've been with my bf for 2yrs. am 23 he's 33 he's been married and divorced i haven't this is my 1st time even living with a bf. i recently moved in with him. at first everything was great. then all of a sudden he starting saying that im invading his space like am taking over that its HIS house ect ect whats that ment to mean ? he tells me that he loves having me around...........i dont know what to do
Art_Critic Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 When a guy starts saying this kinda stuff it isn't good.. it seems to me that he is pulling away from you. It is possible that the age difference is too great and/or now he is thru his divorce that you were his rebound.. You need to sit him down and talk with him about where your relationship is heading.. because right now it is heading in the wrong direction.. Good Luck
Sassy Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Totally agree with Art . Doesn't sound good at all. Maybe he is regretting his decision to let you move in. Give him his space and see where things go from here. Do have a talk with him as Art said . Maybe he isn't cut out to live with someone.
Cecelius Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 All of the above may be a little quick -- do you pay your share, how much is your stuff around the place relative to his and relative to how much you pay? There's a few facts missing. He may just be having a hard time adjusting to the logistics
catgirl1927 Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Can you move out? Or at least go stay somewhere else for a while? You guys are in COMPLETELY different places in life, and it sounds like he regrets having you move in.
Guest Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 All of the above may be a little quick -- do you pay your share, how much is your stuff around the place relative to his and relative to how much you pay? There's a few facts missing. He may just be having a hard time adjusting to the logistics he earns twice as much as i do. i put in what i can towards bills ect ect. there is more of his stuff laying around mainly becasuse i aint got as much stuff as him lol. Everything i have is here (thanks for the Advice Everyone.)
Guest Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Can you move out? Or at least go stay somewhere else for a while? You guys are in COMPLETELY different places in life, and it sounds like he regrets having you move in. i have holidays coming up soon. so i can take myself off for a week or so, yea there's always a place i can move out to if it came to that. more than likely moved in together too quick
Delectable Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 he earns twice as much as i do. i put in what i can towards bills ect ect. there is more of his stuff laying around mainly becasuse i aint got as much stuff as him lol. Everything i have is here Is that half? Is that EVERY MONTH? Does he have his own space within your apt? Do you respect his privacy?
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