hugznkisses21 Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Ok a bit of background info here... Dated a guy for 2.5 years broke up...feelin good and started dating a wonderful fun caring sweet funny guy... Ok so we are about a mth into our so called relationship he has made reference to me being his gf... This is all good and dandy since we both know we like one another, have a blast together etc etc.... Well i have dated in a while so i guess im a bit confused about a few things....first guy i have dated that say oh i will call u later and sometimes doesnt calls the next day perhaps....this is different then what im used to (the once a day bf/gf call) so makes my mind wonder a bit...so he just got a new job has to pack up the old one and has a busy week with sports so its looking like we may not meet up this week....So its totally in my sense of humour to joke around "ah no time for the girl etc etc" and just saying to him ya know its cool i will see you sat (we have a party to go to) no worries....he says "Oh okay" hahaha a part of me is like what do u mean ok dude u are suppose to be missing me like i miss you ...hahah...so before we left the conversation i said honest im just giving you a hard time joking around no worries about this week see you sat... No lies my ex left me feeling very insecure so i think what im looking for advice on is are there guys that just go with the flow and sometimes dont call but still are interested...and miss you and why do they sound like a buddy on the phone that you have known forever but a sweetheart in person. When the phone is all u have sometimes due to busy schedules it sometimes leaves me feeling like...ehhh is he loosing interest. weird i have never dated a guy that doesnt use sweety, hun, cutie....so im wondering... Other than that im soooooo happy with him hes amazing and we are just glowing when we are together....
luvtoto Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Most guys are like that...busy. That's just your typical guy. To be honest, I would much rather have a guy that you described, than a guy that calls every single day! That would appear too needy in my eyes. Better get a hold of your insecurities before they get the best of you.
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