Guest Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 so here i am trying to pick up the pieces after my loser ex dumped me... from a previous post "does it ever get any better" and "don't ever call me again" you'd get some background... so i'm moving out of my house and have to get every single thing out this week. so, as he knows, his stuff from work is sitting out in my garage.. this isn't random crap like a screwdriver, it's stuff his company owns that isn't his.. i see it every day and wonder if he's ever going to pick it up.. so today after one whole week of NC i call him and say do you want this crap or can i throw it away.. he said yeah i'll be by in a little bit to get it... i said well i just plan on sitting it on the porch (that way i don't have to see him..and he can get it that way) he said ok you can do that if you want... and i said okay and thanks..and he said he'd call in a few hours on his way over here. and the whole night has passed and NOT ONE phone call.. i tried calling him once and he never answered or responded.. i'm so pissed... why even answer the phone or say yes if you know you're not going to follow through... i've had enough of hurting myself... his s*** has gone in the dumpster.. if he wants it he can dig out there. i just can't get over how cruel some ppl can be to others.
Guest Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 So he finally called around 9pm and said he had been avoiding me b/c 'he wanted this feeling in his heart to go away' and seeing me wouldn't help it... he was such an ass to me during the relationship that i think that is all b.s. he said he'd be over tomorrow to get his stuff. so i talk to him this morning and he is rude as ever..told me i needed therapy..to which i said after dating someone like yourself you're probably right. he said he asked me to do two things during the relationship that i couldn't do; leave him alone and give him his space... and that it was my loss. i told him he wouldnt find anyone better than me and that nobody would love him like i did to which he replied 'whatever you say'. and then he asked 'you're not going to bitch at me when i come get my stuff are you, cause this is over." i don't even want to see him. he always finds new ways to hurt me.
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