PlentyLV007 Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Hey my peoples!!! I found a good guy! no...GREAT guy! I've known him since I was a kid, we grew up together. He was away for about 4 years because he is a Marine. HOORA! Now I ran into him about 2 weeks ago. We've been talking every day and we've gone out twice and looking forward to going out this weekend! What a coinsidence that he lives like 3-4 houses down from my mom's house. My mom love's him...knows he's great...of course because we grew up toghether....now...here is the thing.... He broke up with his Ex about 2 years ago and they have a baby toghether...now he of course still sees her due to the baby...He takes care of the baby and the baby lives with him because she is not a suitable mother to take care of the baby....Baby is 3 years old...He told me that he hates her, yet still helps her.... He says the only reason he does it is for his son. When she's (Exgirl) happy, his son is happy! GREAT GUY Right! I'm curious....if he hate's her (for betraying him while he was in away) would he still have feelings for her as in pain? He doesn't talke about her...he just said...I hate her for what she did...but, I still help her for my son. I just don't want to be the rebound..though I feel it's been two years from his break up.... THOUGHTS!!!????
noclobber Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 I really don't have the knowledge or experience to provide advice regarding your problem but I wanted to say a big congratulations for finding someone You are a great person and you deserve a great guy! PS: Just curious, have you ever talked about this guy in any of your threads?
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 You are a great person and you deserve a great guy! PS: Just curious, have you ever talked about this guy in any of your threads? Thank you CLOBBER!!! your the best!!!! I know we've been through a couple of threads me and you ....and no I haven't ever talked about this guy. I know who your thinking about though...my crazy guy friend who cared about me who I didn't see as a relationship...well to let you know... He went crazy...he started leaving me threatning messages and well it just went bad. My sister is a cop and called him and told him that what he is doing is harrasment and he can get introuble for it. He's never called me again. I don't miss him either....
noclobber Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Thank you CLOBBER!!! your the best!!!! I know we've been through a couple of threads me and you ....and no I haven't ever talked about this guy. I know who your thinking about though...my crazy guy friend who cared about me who I didn't see as a relationship...well to let you know... He went crazy...he started leaving me threatning messages and well it just went bad. My sister is a cop and called him and told him that what he is doing is harrasment and he can get introuble for it. He's never called me again. I don't miss him either.... Oh that's sad. He brought it onto himself and lost your friendship as well in the process. Good luck to you in your new relationship!
Author PlentyLV007 Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 Oh that's sad. He brought it onto himself and lost your friendship as well in the process. Good luck to you in your new relationship! I agree!!! He did.... His friendship in the long run wasn't a good nor healthy!!! THANK YOU FOR FOLLOWING UP WITH ME!!!!
Curmudgeon Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 The opposite of love isn't hatred. The opposite of love is indifference. If he "hates" her than he still has feelings for her, even if they're not positive. Therefore, there's still an emotional connection.
littlekitty Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 The opposite of love isn't hatred. The opposite of love is indifference. If he "hates" her than he still has feelings for her, even if they're not positive. Therefore, there's still an emotional connection. Surely there always will be to a point anyway? She's the mother of his son and that does tie him to her in many ways, isn't that an emotional bond of a type? Not talking about her could also be a sign of indifference could it not? I agree with what Curmudgeon says pretty much though. In times of stress when my so's ex is causing us hassle over his son, I do still hear the odd 'Aghhhh she does my f***ing head in'!! But I feel the same at the time, she is an akward physco!! So to me that doesn't mean he's still attached to her. The rest of the time, he doesn't give a toss about her, provided his son is happy and healthy and in a good enviroment.
Walk Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 I still get angry about my ex and it's been 3 years. I have no love for the man, and never want to see him again. If this guy were talking about his feelings for her a LOT then I could see worrying about it, but it didn't sound like that in your post. By the way.. it's not Hoorah. It's Oorah. No H. That's Army. Glad you finally found a great guy. I hope it works out. Best of luck!
SuperMonk Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 I doubt the dude likes her that much, a guy who got betrayed like that would OBVIOUSLY hate the woman and hardly have any love for her.
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