tidal Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 I'm in a long distance relationship and my SO expects me to move in when my lease is up. I am not sure I want to. I have told him this. He continually talks as though I am moving and it makes me feel really pressured. I want him to stop talking about it so I can do my own thinking and make my own decision. Is it rude for me to ask him to stop talking about us living together?
JohnM Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 I don't think its rude. If you're feeling pressured by it, let him know that you'll make up your own mind and tell him when you're ready and have thought about it. Its a big step and you should think it through rather than being rushed into anything.
hiraka Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 It is not rude to state you are uncomfortable with an idea that is forced upon you without your feedback into it. He should be understanding to you if you are not ready for the move as long as you are honest with him as to why you are not ready for it. I can't remember what post here it was, but the advice overall seemed to state that don't move unless it is your idea. I think it is very sound advice.
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