Guest Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 This whole deal started friday when she called me up crying telling me how she treats me and her mom and friends like crap and told me that she cut herself a few times in the past month. After half an hour of talking she told me she didnt want to ruin my time because i was at our basketball tournament so I decided it was enough for the night and let her go. The next day was fine, we hung out and I just made sure to make her feel loved. Then that night someone called her up saying that I was telling people that I didnt like her because I was in front of the teammates. So she started yelling at me and it ended today with her saying i was being embarassed of her. That afternoon I found her after the game and told her I was sorry even though I never said those things, but she wouldnt listen and I walked off mad. I apologized over the phone for acting mad and she said i didnt have to be. Now she wont answer any phone calls or reply any texts I give. Im more afraid of what shes going to do to herself than what will happen to us. What should I do?
qnmc Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Sounds like you're in HS? Honestly, all she wants is attention and a reaction from you. The cutting thing is over the edge, did you actually see the cuts? If not, or if they're pretty minor, it sounds like she's crying out for attention. The more you respond, especially emotionally, the more you're feeding it. I'd become a ghost in her life for a little while. Let her start texting you, leaving you v-mails, etc. Let that go on until she's apologizing profusely in them. She sounds like she's more trouble than she's worth, I'd drop her.
whats wrong with me Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 I agree with gnmc for the most part BUT if you think this is a serious problem...that she may be sucidal...tell her mother (anonymously) this is something her family needs to take care of not you!
SuperMonk Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 She's crying wolf. Tell her to listen to some emo/punk/linkin park crap and think about life some more. For now, take care of yourself, and look for other girls to mate with.
max003 Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 its a really cheap girl trick, pretend to be mad and make him come running to you. it works, i know im a girl, but she's a manipulative woman who obviously doesnt care shes hurting you to make herself feel better. Dump her and then shag her friends
whats wrong with me Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 I agree this is a cheap girl trick ( I used to do crap like this too!) but god wouldn't we all feel bad if she killed herself next week? Kids killing themselves happens alot it seems. I'm still saying tell her mom (ANONYMOUSLY) just in case!
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