Taize509 Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Situation: Me and my b/f have been in a long distance relationship for 3 years and are unable to see eachother for another year. This has proved very difficult but we have managed with few major conflicts. The following is a breakdown of a conflict we would like some feedback about... Awhile ago I started talking to an older man in another state. I viewed us as nothing more than distant-friends. After awhile my b/f learned that this guy was talking bad about him, he handled this by only asking to not be talked about. We agreed to stop, though i wasnt sure exactly how to stop him, i thought he was entitled to his opinion. Later my b/f learned that he not only continued to talk about him he also started flirting with me. I didnt appreicate any of this, however i didnt know how to fix it, short of not talking at all. My b/f then asked me to stop talking to him completly since we were unable to stop talking about him. I agreed but later decided to try and talk to him again without my b/f as the topic. When my b/f learned that i had lied and continued talking to him he could only think of one other option. He told me to choose between him and this guy. Of course i choose to stay with my b/f but im still having a hard time understanding that making me choose was the only other option. Question: Was it right to make me choose between a friend and my b/f? Was this the only other option? What would you have done in either of our positions?
Guest Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 I think he was right to do that, He asked you not to and you did say you werent going to talk to the man. Not many guys would want there g/f or signifgant other talking to someone like that. Espcially in a long distance realtionship.
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