huz68qog Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 i recently slept with this guy I've been knowing for about 4 years. I've always known that he was attracted to me and couldn't act on it due to u both of us being in relationships. we fell out of touch for a while, but for the past 8 months when i go home to visit we go out with groups and alone to hang out. we both enjoy each others company and neither of us are in relationships at the moment. i haven't had sex in 7 months this is because i don't want to have meaningless sex, and I'm very selective. but i was sexually frustrated and his present was pure temptation. i slept with him to fore-fill my own selfish needs of pleasure. i needed some intimacy in my life and i choose him because he's someone I've known for sometime and i feel comfortable in his arm. it was just suppose to be sex for me and now i feel myself thinking about having more than that with him, out of the blue, he's on my mine. I'm not sure where to take this, but i definitely know that i can't do the friends with benefits thing. i don't wanna start asking about the possibility of a relationship just yet. i don't know where to start. the funny part is that i didn't have any of these fillings before sex. i could really use some advice, thanks
Sassy Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Just go with the flow and let the chips fall where they may. Don't stress so much about what should or shouldn't happen. Go with it .Good luck and have fun!
Guest Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Because we are constructed biologically to become fonder of people we have sex with. Google 'oxytocin' and read anything by Dr. Helen Fischer.
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