Author fooled Posted March 20, 2006 Author Posted March 20, 2006 How about we compromise and I sing "It's Raining Men"? Thanks all - for the support! I am not a vindictive man. I have never sought revenge on anyone. I think it's wasteful and meaningless. I also do not believe in karma. I do believe in consequences. And she, being as irresponsible as she is, finds them annoying rather than being lessons. So, she is not really hurting, per se. Bothered maybe. Irritated perhaps. But she is not hurting. And by now has already thought of a justification that allows her to be the victim.
amaysngrace Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 And by now has already thought of a justification that allows her to be the victim. most definitely. now it's YOUR fault. hee hee
jen_jen_heartbroken Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 most definitely. now it's YOUR fault. hee hee Of course it was his fault. I mean, all she wanted was to f*** other guys and drink like a fish. Is that really too much to ask?
amaysngrace Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Sorry to kill the mood, but that song could only be justifiably sung by a guy if he was a transvestite. oops, sorry...i hadn't realized guys couldn't sing this song. i sing to plant and vetter so i thought you guys could just as easily sing "i will survive" Try "Mannish Boy" or at least something you don't have to use your hips too much to sing. okay, never heard of mannish boy. is that like "danny boy"? the one where they sing "i get knocked down, but i get up again, cuz you're never gonna keep me down"?
bendit Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Please, don't get caught up in believing she is "hurting", that she "loved" Fooled or that she is a victim in any way. None of that is true. She is a selfish predator. She is now wondering where her "victim" went. She has many many chumps out there she can call or email who will give her just the response she desires. Fooled is just one of them. When Fooled stops playing, she simply moves on to someone who will. And many will. It is cold and calculating. Our mistake comes in believing they "grieve" or feel a loss when exs like Fooled do not answer her selfish gestures of contact. Boo Hoo. I cry for her. The same crocodile tears they give us when they "hurt". Let her go bother the chumps she cheated on when supposedly in a relationship with Fooled. Let THEM give her the attention she craves. And believe me that's ALL she craves. She underestimated our hero Fooled. She thought he would be HER chump long into the future. Someone she could "toy" with whenever she needed a bit of a boost. Let's just dial up old Fooled. He was always at the ready to give me an ego boost just when the other three guys I screwed over, stopped taking my calls. I advise those that feel "sorry" for this wreck of a person to see her for exactly what she is. A selfish woman who thinks only of numero uno, and what she can GET from Fooled. I am sorry that Fooled read the email. Its technically a break of contact in my book. Renewed contact starts very innocently, in fact in just this way. I hope that Fooled can take the next difficult steps. Change your email addy. Change your phone numbers. If she knocks on your door don't answer. IGNORE her and give her nothing. Fooled is very very close to closing the door on her forever. But as long as it stays open a crack, there is a chance, a small one, but a chance nonetheless, that she can reenter his life and disrupt it again. Shut her down. Forever. And don't look back. regards and kudos to you for staying strong
riobikini Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Bendit, all... I agree. Yes, it sounds harsh -it is harsh- -but it's supposed to be. Because it's so harsh, many reject 'NC' , -but when it's applied to the right circumstances, it offers the consolation of not only a clean severance, but protection, and as well as promoting a less-distracted forward-moving recovery. Right on, brotha! -Rio
2020vision Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Please, don't get caught up in believing she is "hurting", that she "loved" Fooled or that she is a victim in any way. None of that is true. She is a selfish predator. She is now wondering where her "victim" went. She has many many chumps out there she can call or email who will give her just the response she desires. Fooled is just one of them. When Fooled stops playing, she simply moves on to someone who will. And many will. It is cold and calculating. Our mistake comes in believing they "grieve" or feel a loss when exs like Fooled do not answer her selfish gestures of contact. Boo Hoo. I cry for her. The same crocodile tears they give us when they "hurt". Let her go bother the chumps she cheated on when supposedly in a relationship with Fooled. Let THEM give her the attention she craves. And believe me that's ALL she craves. This is the best thread I have read. It is all so true, and really does capture the mindset of a selfish ex. My ex contacted me two weeks ago, telling me he loves me and misses me...mind you, he just moved in with the girl he dumped me for. I did not respond to him and he kept calling and calling and texting. I was getting joy out of the fact that I was irritating him and hurting him and thinking he really cared...However, he did not. If he really truley hurt inside and meant what he said, I would be with him right now. Whats more, his mother called me (from a blocked ID so I answered the call unfortunatley) and she proceeded to tell me how my ex told her that he called his other ex-girlfriend too. Case in point, I was just another victim for him to get attention from. He does not have the same genunine feelings that I have for him. Its hard sometimes to think so shallow and cold, however, you have to when dealing with these "predators" I cannot say how happy I am that I did not respond to him. It hurt at first that I was having to be so cold to someone I once loved with all of my heart, however, things only keep getting better for me without him in my life. Shut her down. Forever. And don't look back. Yes, this is the only thing you can do. Great job Fooled. You are an inspiration to all.
johan Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 How about we compromise and I sing "It's Raining Men"? Hm. I think I may have found the root of your problem... And how is that a compromise??
Author fooled Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 It lets me make a joke about "It's Raining Men." Hm. I think I may have found the root of your problem... And how is that a compromise??
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