avano2289 Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 i am the wife of a cheating husband who is bipolar manic depressant. the other woman only knows what he has told her. which where all lies. i'm very loving, attractive, always took care of his needs, paid the bills, etc. she has never seen or met me nor does she know anyone who knows me. i found out about his affair in the middle of jan. i went for my annual pap smear the beginnig of jan. i was contacted by my dr. to come in right away, a biopsy was done, he brought home genital warts to me and i am in the 2nd stage of cervical cancer. right around the time this all blew up i found out about his secret life (i ran in to of friend of his while i was working who told me) of unprotected sex, with numerous woman. he would say he was working late (his job required he do so), his drug abuse etc. i called her, she denied the affair, i proceeded to tell her, he has genital warts and i now have cancer because of it. she said he doesn't have anything and i was making it up then said do you have proof, i told her i would send her a copy of all the insurance papers and did so. i since have asked him to leave, he moved in with her, but only took a bag of clothes, after he kept calling, leaving messages on the voicemail i love you please dont do this. i sent her a copy of all the voice messages, then i had surgery, the day i came home she was calling me telling me to leave him alone (hmm, who was calling who). last night i packed up all of his belongings, got him and her a bunch of congratulations ballons, tied them to his belongings and dropped them off in her driveway. please don't beleive everything a married man has to say. do some checking on what he is telling you. make him get an hpv test. remember if he wants to be with you he would leave her, not sneak around. its easy to be the fun person, but at some point and time you become a responsible person, just like her. i will never forgive him for what he has done, she can have him.
whichwayisup Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Holy crap! I'm so sorry for what you've had to go through. Good for you for kicking him out. Sending you good thoughts, stay strong - And I hope your health improves.
lovernotafighter Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 can't blame you for not forgiving him...I'm so sorry for all the crap your going through..best of luck to you and thank you for sharing your story.
Sassy Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 Good for you kicking his a@@ out!! Don't look back and waste one single thought on that loser.. He cheated on you and he sure will cheat on you.. Good luck and hugs to you.
Ladylay Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 last night i packed up all of his belongings, got him and her a bunch of congratulations ballons, tied them to his belongings and dropped them off in her driveway. That is pure class. Im sorry for your illness.Good luck with your treatment.
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