caring guy Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 Hi all Since my LT engagement ended, i moved back home & a couple of weeks later a girl i used to know from school moved in next door! A couple of weeks went by before i spoke to her & suggested we get together & catch up. 1 week later i was in the local bar & she was in there alone reading a magazine, so i joined her & we chatted for ages & also i should mention she had broken her arm since i saw her last! We chatted for hours & she said she'd broken up with her partner & had moved in with her 2 kids. We had some wine, not a lot, we weren't drunk, but ended up getting touchy feely & ended up at hers & got it on & it was great. We have met up 3 times since, we go walks, into town on nights out,i cook for her & get on real well, we kiss a lot, hugg hold hands & have great sex, maybe seeing each other twice a week. She has her family close so she isn't lonely. I think she likes me, but she says she loves her independence. Question is, i don't know where we are, are we dating, or just having fun together! I don't wanna ask her, that would be bad, she said i wouldn't be there if she didn't like me, i told her i fancy her & she does me, but i know that i am convenient for her, she's off work & i help out. She only has her left hand! But we, as i say are intimate. Should i just carry on with it & enjoy, or maybe try & find out the situation. I get close to people & don't screw around & don't want to be used as a bit of fun . I have learned from my past relationships about pushing & reassurance, so i feel i can't question her! I don't think this is the case, she says she needs nobody, has family & friends nearby & her kids go to school localy. Any advice.
daisyduke1234 Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 To me, it sounds like fate. However, as you've both just come out of longterm relationships, I wonder whether she is thinking that you're not ready for a another LT relationship? and is treating it as fun? How do you feel about her?
Author caring guy Posted March 19, 2006 Author Posted March 19, 2006 Hi Daisy You mean fate in a good way or bad, like destiny that we came together at the same time & would be good for each other? You could be right about the fun thing, however i hope not, we get on real well, are relaxed & open & the conversation is good, i like her a lot, although we do reminisce alot about school & days gone bye!
Author caring guy Posted March 20, 2006 Author Posted March 20, 2006 Anyone? I'm not knowing what to think, just i need my own life! I know she has hers & i tend to think about that, her life, more than the sh*t life i have!
Author caring guy Posted March 21, 2006 Author Posted March 21, 2006 forget the above post, i was on my own, thinking & drunk! We see each other 2-3 times a week, when together we kiss & have sex, cuddles & are good together, but i don't know whats in her head, fun or lets see what happens. I've spoken to someone & they see it as dating & that you can't put a name to it, it's just 2 people going with it! I just don't do this if it's just fun, it's beyond fun emotionally to me. I'm no **** buddy as we do more than that! Anyone !
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