candykisses Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 I need some advice about this guy I work with. He is a really nice and sweet guy but he has a dry sense of humor. Some people think he is a jerk because of the way he acts at work. He only shows his true self to his circle of people he feels comfortable with. I work a differnet shift them he does and we only see each other for a very short time during the week. He is always joking around with me and I would say a little flirty with me as well. He is not like this with anyone else on my shift that I can see. He doesn't flirt with anyone else on his shift either, I know this because I asked a friend of mine that works with him. A couple of months ago we were together talking with another co worker and I was leaving the room but I turned around because our co worker had said something to me and when I turned around I noticed him "checking me out", didn't really think anything of it until recently. I have noticed that we only joke and "flirt" when no one else is around, when there are other people around it is completely different with him. He will hardly look at me but when we are alone or there is one other person around he will look at me. The other day he had made a joke when it was just us and we both laughed and then he touched me on the back of my shoulder(patted), which he has not done that before. I just want to know if he could like me? I believe all the signs are there, but not so sure of myself. I have been out of the dating scene for a while and I'm not quite sure of the signs anymore. What do you think? any help plz!!!
amaysngrace Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 why don't you tell him you'd really like to see him OUTSIDE of work, and see how he reacts?
Shan n Posted March 19, 2006 Posted March 19, 2006 From the description of his personality, it sounds like he is interested and comfortable with you. This could be why he doesn't act the same with you when others are around. Maybe he is just a little too shy with you yet to ask you out. I agree with asking him to see you outside of work. Maybe he needs a little push or reassurance from you. Good luck! Shan n;)
Author candykisses Posted April 9, 2006 Author Posted April 9, 2006 Well we had a get together the other night and he was there. He has been gone for about a week or so, went on vacation and that was the first time I had seen him since he left and I was really surprised that he even remembered we were having a get together, no one has talked to him or reminded him about it. Anyway, me and a friend of mine were drinking water and a soda, along with a couple of other people who were not drinking beer. He made a comment about me and my friend not drinking a beer yet but not about the other people who didn't have a beer either, so I don't know if he was just trying to strike up a conversation with me or what but I find it odd that he didn't comment about everyone not having a beer. Throughout the evening every time he would talk to the group, he would always look me in the eye and talk to me directly in stead of shifting his eyes around the group. This is very good thing, right???? He ended up having to leave early coz he got a call from friend who needed a ride home after partying too hard, but the weird thing is he told everyone else bye but he didn't say anything to me. I don't know what to make of this. Is this a bad thing? Is he too shy to say bye to me or is he afraid other people may find out that he may like me? Everything was good the entire evening up until he had to go, then nothing. I know that I am that way when I leave and my crush is still around, I hardly say anything to him for fear that people may see something. I know it sound dumb but I just clam up. He has stated that he is weary of dating co workers, so I don't know if I should respect that or go with the signs that I believe are there that he does like me? Any advice out there that someone can give me, would be great!!
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