punkgirlco Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 So, its been 2 weeks since my and I split up. But I find that he's been texting me at least once a day, with really nothing to say to me. He's getting upset and jealous over silly little things. He keeps saying that I should come up, and we should get together, stuff like that. This is the same pattern every other boyfriend I've had fals into.... They break up with me one week before our six month mark, then they say they want to be friends, then they start trying the whole friends with benifits thing, then they say the were idiots and they want to get back together. But normally by the time they say they were dumb, I have moved on... So I'm not sure if I should wait this one out, and hope he makes the "I'm an idiot" realization. Or if I should go up to see him, or what..... I will NEVER understand why this always falls into the same pattern.... *sigh*
PlentyLV007 Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 I will NEVER understand why this always falls into the same pattern.... *sigh* Question: Why do u feel you need to understand that? Most people don't know what they have till it's gone. It's unfotunate about your pattern and your right about it. Same thing goes for me...after a while they contact you because they "realize" what they had and what they've lost. With this current case...don't make it a pattern on seeing the same thing...just cut him off.... NC....
CaliGuy Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 Seems to be a pattern with men. I haven't seen many cases where women do this.
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