jonnie5 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 My girlfriend and I broke up Wednesday night after dating for about 5 months. She broke up with me because she was confused and didn't know what she wanted. We talked for awhile and left it on very good terms. We agreed to remain friends, even though I know that never works out. She left to go out of town Thursday morning to see her friend out of state. She sent me a text message that night saying "Goodnight" and then she called me this morning at like 10:30. We didn't talk about us, we just had a good conversation for like 30 minutes. I was just curious why she would text me and call me so soon after breaking up with me? What could this mean?
tikigods Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 It means that she was lonely and wanted to chat with you. You told her that you wanted to remain friends and she sees this as a chance to contact you.
Author jonnie5 Posted March 18, 2006 Author Posted March 18, 2006 When she called me she was at her sisters lacrosse game. Could it mean that she misses me or that she made a mistake?
Dinnj1 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 please... stop sweatin' it. There are a billion people here "hoping" their ex's would call. Don't analyze it... don't question it.... just let it happen.... be yourself.
penkitten Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 she probally wants to see if you want to work things out.
Dinnj1 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 but she broke up with me But NOTHIN' !!! Lemme' guess, you're under age? 15-17? I hope? Don't worry about her calling you, as long as she's calling you, that's what matters. Don't question her reasons why... just talk to her... as you always have... if she wants more or thinks she's made a mistake... LET HER TELL YOU OR BRING IT UP...
Author jonnie5 Posted March 27, 2006 Author Posted March 27, 2006 She called me again last week to tell me her grades for her classes, but I didn't answer and never called her back. She called me again Saturday night twice. It was late and she was drunk. I asked her what was up and she said she just wanted to say hi. I was busy so I told her to call me the next day and hung up. Shew never did. I feel like she wanted to tell me something but didn't. It also could have been a late night booty call since she was drunk. I just don't know how to interpret her calling me so much. I hasn't even been two weeks and she has contacted me 4 or 5 times. Any suggestions?
Dinnj1 Posted March 27, 2006 Posted March 27, 2006 yes... relax. And keep your distance. She broke up with you, and not the other way around. Maybe she thinks she made a mistake??? Maybe she's just 'playin'' with your mind??? Maybe she's just a bad drunk??? There's a buncha maybe's and you're not gonna know what she wants until SHE tells you herself. But let her be the one to do so. Don't question her... don't push her... Let her come to you... WHEN SHE'S SOBER!
Author jonnie5 Posted March 28, 2006 Author Posted March 28, 2006 thanks dinnj1, you are probably right
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