AZKHO Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 Ok well I have been posting for the last 3 months. I moved away and ended things with my mm, well he is in a relationship with a girl that he has been seeing for a long time, they are suposed to get married in august, and have two kids together. So he came to visit me February 16-26, and we talked and it was over, but we were still going to be friends. So that worked out, i hadn't thought too much into him, just my friend, cause we were good friends before hand. So to make this long story short, he called 3 nights ago, i hadn't really spoken to him. And he says he misses me. And has been thinking about things and that i mean more to him than any women, and that he is willing to give up what he has for me, and so on. That he cant sit at home anymore with the women he is with and marry her knowing that the person who is everything he has ever wanted in a women(thats me) is strung along. He says he can't handle being in the a**h*** category in my mind. Though he wasn't, i knew that he was taken when we starting having our fling. Then he tells me these plans he has, to get his self together, and anyways, he dropped the L bomb. He said i love you as who you are, i love your person, i love you as my best friend, then he goes on, like scatter brained for like 20 minutes, then i hung up, cause i don't know why. And he called back and went on again for 20 minutes and he goes, here is the deal, i miss you and i love you. And that is all i know at this moment. Oh my god, i couldn't handle that, so of course i went off and made him belive that i was over that whole thing, cause i was the one who brought it up a while ago. And he talked to me for 5 hours about this and kept saying he loved me. And then it was late so he said he would call tomorrow. I didn't answer when he called that was on March 15 and i haven't called back or answered since. In thinking about all the things i said to him, i do love him, i am totally in love with him, and i want to tell him that, but i dont know. i am going home to visit in 2 weeks, should i wait and tell him in person, or call him back. What do i do?
lovernotafighter Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 since you do love him..perhaps you should tell him so. at least reguardless of what happens you'll never question in your mind the what 'if's' .you'll know you told him how you feel and he has the chance to respond in to let go of his girlfriend and be with you. I wouldn't make demands..I'd just tell him and let go and leave the ball in his court.
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