Bballswingr Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 Sry if this is a double post but i couldnt get it to work before... Anyway i wussied out of asking a girl out today, even though im pretty sure shes into me. Can i do it over the internet? i know you arent supposed to do this but i have no other way of contacting her besides aim. Any help?
AdvicceKing017 Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 [COLOR=black]Asking her out over the Internet shows that you are insecure. That is the one thing that you do not do. Also don’t try and ask her out on the phone. If you do that shows that you are still in 5th grade. Ask her out at school, but that is not the best thing to do either. Try contacting her and ask if she wants to go to the mall or the movies or something that you think she would enjoy. When asking her out say "will you date me?” Wait for an out of the blue moment. But also make sure it’s the perfect time.[/COLOR][COLOR=black][/COLOR]
melbourneboy Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 LOL i dont think it really matters, If shes Keen on you im sure she will be wrapped which ever way you ask her out.
babbah Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 hhmmnn...yeah, asking her over the phone is much better than the internet. maybe u can drop her a msg on AIM and ask for the # instead. goodluck!
TheSwordfish Posted March 18, 2006 Posted March 18, 2006 The phone is a good way to ask someone out. just make sure you make a plan (what to do). I think using internet and the phone if it is someone you can barely meet in person it is not bad at all. I used a trick, but not sure if its a good one, to combine the phone and the internet. A while ago I met a girl, showed all the interest signs in spades. So I asked her MSN, (Should have asked for her number right away, she gave me some hints to do so). Asked the girl if she would like to go to the cinema with me on MSN. She said that she would love to go there with me. Then she gave me her phone number (not the on of her angry brother ) to call her to make actual plans. This week she's busy, busy (She doesn't want to look to available and actually is, with school, and various jobs). So I will call her next week, with a nice proposition for the week there after. I don't like asking someone out on the internet, so I just suggested something, and asked her number after that. Now I have to call, and see what she says.
AdvicceKing017 Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 what are you guys stupid. dont ask her out on the internet the phone etc. ask her out in person. all you guys are dumb. what is this the 2nd grade?
TheSwordfish Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 In some situations its hard to ask someone out in person, if you hardly see each other. If you are an educated, working person, its sometimes really hard to stay in touch with someone with an equal amount of work to do. Should you ask people out when you meet them? Or should you call her to make an apointment to ask her out... Come on.....
AdvicceKing017 Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 I agree, but we are talking about a kid that is [FONT=Times New Roman]Probably in middle school. the hole thing about calling them and asking for an [COLOR=black][FONT=Times New Roman]appointment to ask them out. i can see you have p[FONT=Times New Roman]robably never had a girl friend. well you p[FONT=Times New Roman]robably have but still this is a middle school to high school student. at witch i am to and i have had many girl friends and i seem to be quite [FONT=Times New Roman][COLOR=black][FONT=Times New Roman]popular in my school. and you seem to be in your mid. 20s to 30s. i would have to disagree with every thing you are trying to tell this kid[/FONT][/COLOR][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/FONT][/COLOR][/FONT]
MadDog Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 what are you guys stupid. dont ask her out on the internet the phone etc. ask her out in person. all you guys are dumb. what is this the 2nd grade? Exactly. Asking out someone in person is the way to go. It's really not that hard and it shows you're actually interested. Asking out a girl online might make a girl wonder if you're just horny from all the porn-watching you've been doing. Well, maybe if she's observant that way she'd think that. MD
SuperMonk Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 If you can, do it in person. Then phone. But leave the electronic text stuff to wimpy guys.
MadDog Posted March 21, 2006 Posted March 21, 2006 If you can, do it in person. Then phone. But leave the electronic text stuff to wimpy guys. Isn't that a good number of guys on here though? Lots of posts that go something like, "This girl told me I'm hot and we even made out at a party. I really want to ask her out but don't know how. Help!! What do I do??" MD
Guest Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Ya, i agree wit MadDog, i just gotta suck it up and do it, which im goin to do tom.
Delectable Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 As a female, I'd prefer to be asked out in person. I want to know that the asker is confident and serious about spending time with me. It would also be a plus if there was some creativity behind the request. Sure a lot of people ask people out over the internet and a lot of people will say sure do it online...but I think it doesn't show confidence, manliness, and it wouldn't be as exciting as an in person ask.
Author Bballswingr Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 ya i just gotta not be a wuss and go for it, which i plan on doin tomorrow
TheSwordfish Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 Come on guys, don't make it so complicated. I have bene in situations where in I couldn't ask soemone out (it is something you do when the two of you are alone, not with a bunch of others around) and I don't think calling someone to ask him or her out is wrong. I mean, would you first call someone, say that you want to come over, to ask her out? Just using the internet isn't the way to go though....
MadDog Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 As a female, I'd prefer to be asked out in person. I want to know that the asker is confident and serious about spending time with me. It would also be a plus if there was some creativity behind the request. That's kinda funny. I always ask girls out in person but I normally just say, "What are your plans for x day." Assuming she's not out of town, "OK cool. You want to hang out? I know this restaurant I've been wanting to check out." About as uncreative as you can get but seems to work everytime. MD
Guest Posted March 22, 2006 Posted March 22, 2006 ok unrelated to the topic but relating to the same girl...im so mad at myself right now cause i just cant seem to do it and i dont want to lose my chance. She seems real intrested in me right now and i dont wanna blow that.
Author Bballswingr Posted March 22, 2006 Author Posted March 22, 2006 Unrelated to topic but relating to the same girl... Ahh im so mad cause i just cant seem to do it, i dont know but everytime i get the chance i just freeze. (Walk away or talk to someone else or something) It shouldnt be this hard cause im pretty sure she likes me, ahh i dont know what my problem is.
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