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Am I (we) lying to ourselves?


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its funny that this post was written as i have been wondering how to fall out of love. obviously theres no 1 thing to do...hell...there may be nothing you can do but wait. however, im going on 10 months and i still miss her terribly and think about her all the time. despite being screwed over, despite being lied to, despite her living with a new guy after only a few months...i still love her. shes still the only one i want. theres no one else i connect to the way that i did with her.

im sick of waiting for it to go away. i want to be active in doing so. ive moved away from my home, ive blocked her sn, i dont ask about her and havent for a long time. she has nothing to do with my life and yet in my head shes a big part of it. i think about how long its been and i cant believe i still am hung up on her. is there anyhing else i can do. i dont like the situation im in right now as far as where im living, the people im around, the work i have to do. im not happy with life at all but all i can do it keep trucking forward. when does it stop becoming a chore? what can i do to facilitate it?

 

Hey I still love one of my ex's from about 5 years ago, there is nothing you can do, but I got used to not being with her a long time ago, and have had two girlfriends since. I think true love does last forever, but the aching and sad feelings fades a lot with time. It doesn't hurt, but I still care terribly about her and think about her pretty much everyday, no other girl has ever really lived up to her since, but I suppose one day someone will. Still it's great to have felt it at one time.

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