ange_247 Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 A guy I have know since HS has recently come back into the pic. He was my HS crush but we never got together back then. 9+ years later we have reconnected. We both have gone through a divorce and when we first met up again the attraction was apparent. We both agreed that we were not looking for anything other than sex. He would call once in a while and we would meet up and have our fun and that was it, we were both ok with that, wierd I know. The last time we were together, after the sex, he seemed bothered, so I asked what was wrong and he mention that what we have is good but it sucks at the same time. He then said that he wondered what things would have been like if we had gotten together but that I had pushed him away back then(this was news to me). I joked and said things would be great if we got together but I also reminded him that this was what we agreed on. After he left that night I felt so bad I wanted to tell him that we shouldn't wonder what things would be like, lets give it a try. But of course in the moment I had a mental block and could not say anything right. About 3weeks later we went out dancing for his bday with friends and had a great time. We danced, laughed, drank, kissed and of course had sex. The entire time I thougth of ways of telling him that I wanted more, a relationship, but then I fear rejection and losing a great sex partner and friend. How do I find out if he in fact wants more, as well, with out the risk of losing him all together? I'm driving myself crazy with this one, any advice i'd really appreciate!
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