pacificdove Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 To all you caring people... I dreamt that I was at my ex's home, in our bedroom, on the bed ready for bed. (felt like we got back togher in my dream) . Noticed he changed the sheets. From the corner of the bottom spring, below the head-board, I found an underwear (panty) which was bikini lady style, light burgundy color (I have similar color). I pulled it out and asked him, "who's is this?"... He noded and said "maybe it's yours". I replied and said NO, it's much bigger than mine. I looked at the tag, it said Med/large. IN my mind I was thinking this must have been her's and she didn't find it since it was hidden on corner edge of the box spring. It was a clean one, I noticed. The next scene changed to where I was on the stair case and he approached from the bedroom heading down, met me. He was holding in his hands, what looked like a pajama pants (lady's) because I noticed the color strip. He had it rolled up like as if something else was in hidden between the clothes. I instantly thought in my mind that he was throwing the panty I earlier found. From that, I was thinking he must have searched to make sure no other 'surprise' was left unfound and found that pants. Anyway, he looked and then said "throw this in the trash for me". I took it from him, wanted to open up because it was wrapped in such clumsy way, I was curious what is in it etc... I asked him "what is it ?" He replied, oh...just an old one that I can't wear anymore. "No need to look at it, just throw it ". he said. (Remember that in my dream we were both trying to avoid any argument.) He was pretending that he didn't have anybody. (while we were broken up) and I pretended to accept his concealment not to get into any ugly situation. So I said, "oh..ok, if that's what you say.." and I noticed a plastic kitchen trash bin below the stair case. (IN actual, we have no trash bin beneath the stair case. Below the stair case is a room leading to our dinning room then to the kitchen. However, in my dream I saw the trash can below the staircase. ) So I received with my hands and I tossed it by flipping the top (flip/flop type) opening, right into the trash bin. I knew it was HER'S ! What do you think this meant? Do you think it means, somewhere down the road that relationship is going to the dump ? Will he be leaving her ? He was on his way to throw and met me, instead I threw it in the trash on his behalf. That's not a good dream.... for Them I mean... (I would think) Interested to know if anyone can make some sense of this.
amaysngrace Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 hi pacificdove. i would love to help you with this but as it is, my children are both still up, i'm in my son's room and he has donkeykonga 2 on his game cube. he's pounding on the bongos along with the music and she's dancing and clapping. and they're quite loud. i am having a difficult time just trying to concentrate enough to type this post. but.....i will get them to sleep and try to decipher what this could possibly mean. it seemed very detailed with all the dialogue and i can tell you i haven't really studied dialogue in dreams...only symbols. but i will get back to you.
fraidycat Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 Aaaah now if only what we dreamt could trully control future destiny? Maybe in a good spielberg movie..but in reality it could of been a matter of your subconcious wishful thinking..you've got an ex and it sounds as though he has a woman in his life? A woman you want him to end it with? Your an ex and he has a new girlfriend you just need to move on thinking your dreams are guiding you back to him won't do any good..hate to be cliche here babe but don't dream; it's over
amaysngrace Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 OMG that's so insightful!! yeaaahhh...i can go to bed now. these are tears of pain too....i'm tired. have a good night.
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