SadHatter Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Guys, I posted a message before which can be found at… http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=84334 My ex-gf dumped me about three months ago (at Xmas) and two days later had a new bf who I believe she is still with. We've had no contact since - she treated me horrible after and so I broke all contact - it seemed like that is what she wanted anyway from her behaviour – she would tell me to leave her alone and was very, very nasty to me so I didn’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that is what she wanted! Haven't heard a thing from her since. Sunday night I recieved two texts from her...the first saying, "soz i aint text back till now ive just got in but its 315333! i think ur startin at 10 coz i think im trainin ya again! well cya sat xx" The second saying, "sorry it wasnt meant for you" I didn’t reply. I posted about this on this forum last night at the link above. Well, I have just received three texts messages from her (I haven’t replied to any) reading… 1) “I know this is a bit random but can u text me your last digits of your debit card cos I found some receipts from the pub n I am not sure where they have come from and if they are yours I didn’t know if you want them back xx” 2) “well??” 3) “U don’t have to ignore me if your with one of your gf’s! I just need to know so I can sort these receipts out xx” So guys….what is going on here?!??!? I find this absolutely bizarre or is it just me? It’s brought up a whole load of emotions I thought I could deal with now…
magda Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Just say, "If they are mine, I don't want them back."
Author SadHatter Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 She replied, "well i need to know...is it 1010" i replied, "no" and she texted back, "ok thanks"
magda Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Yeah, maybe she's being a dumb wench, who knows. What are you doing today? Maybe go out with some friends, catch a movie, ask someone out. Just get out of the house and distract so you aren't thinking about this too much.
cal gal Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 some online banking signins require the last digits of your debit card. she may have been trying to access your financial info by asking you to provide that to her...
Lonestar Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 She replied, "well i need to know...is it 1010" i replied, "no" and she texted back, "ok thanks" Don't respond anymore. You did the right thing by saying you don't want the receipts. I suspect you'll be hearing more from her in the future. Especially, if you're cold and distant.
Author SadHatter Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 She made it clear on numerous occasions she isn't interested in me and "has a new bf" as she so often liked to tell me. So why, for the love of God, is she now contacting me?!??!?
tikigods Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 cause I think she wants to play with your head and make sure that you don't get over her
Mary3 Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Caution ! Something does not smell right about this. I would stop responding to her texts. Whether its bank fraud or psycho babble or mind fu****g you ....I would just stop responding. Something tells me she is messed up .
Art_Critic Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Just say, "If they are mine, I don't want them back." I see I was right Just ignore her.. keep your phone off and if you can change your number do it.. This chick is loaded and ready to rip your heart out.. She is just screwing with your head.. show her that your tougher than that and ignore her.. entirely.. you need to pull yourself together .. Realize that these text messages don't mean what they say.. she is f***ing with you.. it is a game.. Don't Play
sexyLMC Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 she sounds the a head f*** babes.. serously just ignore the texts u seem like a sweet person.. u dont need her.. good luck * hugs you'll be ok your doing great * x lisa x
Author SadHatter Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 Thanks for all your replies guys! Sounds like the verdict of the day then is she is a psycho and ignore her! I intended to do that anyway! Haven't heard anything from her again now for the rest of the night, very very strange indeed. If she wanted to contact me why didn't she just say, "hi, how are you?"!?!? (not that I would have replied!!)
magda Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Because she didn't want to *contact you* she wanted to ruffle your feathers. Now stop thinking about her and posting about it, or the terrorists win.
CaliGuy Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Thanks for all your replies guys! Sounds like the verdict of the day then is she is a psycho and ignore her! I intended to do that anyway! Haven't heard anything from her again now for the rest of the night, very very strange indeed. If she wanted to contact me why didn't she just say, "hi, how are you?"!?!? (not that I would have replied!!) She's yanking your chain, that's why Good job with the replies and such. If she really wanted to work things out she wouldn't be text'ing you over silly nonsense.
justhavetoletgo Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 Guys, I posted a message before which can be found at… http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?t=84334 My ex-gf dumped me about three months ago (at Xmas) and two days later had a new bf who I believe she is still with. We've had no contact since - she treated me horrible after and so I broke all contact - it seemed like that is what she wanted anyway from her behaviour – she would tell me to leave her alone and was very, very nasty to me so I didn’t have to be a rocket scientist to know that is what she wanted! Haven't heard a thing from her since. Sunday night I recieved two texts from her...the first saying, "soz i aint text back till now ive just got in but its 315333! i think ur startin at 10 coz i think im trainin ya again! well cya sat xx" The second saying, "sorry it wasnt meant for you" I didn’t reply. I posted about this on this forum last night at the link above. Well, I have just received three texts messages from her (I haven’t replied to any) reading… 1) “I know this is a bit random but can u text me your last digits of your debit card cos I found some receipts from the pub n I am not sure where they have come from and if they are yours I didn’t know if you want them back xx” 2) “well??” 3) “U don’t have to ignore me if your with one of your gf’s! I just need to know so I can sort these receipts out xx” So guys….what is going on here?!??!? I find this absolutely bizarre or is it just me? It’s brought up a whole load of emotions I thought I could deal with now… I told u man she didn't do it by accident i knew it what a mind game bitc% tell her that you want them and you want them now!!!!! just kidding who in the hell needs receipts from a pub? to make yourself cry so you can see how much money you just pissed away she needs to get a life
Author SadHatter Posted March 24, 2006 Author Posted March 24, 2006 Well guys, stupidly, and now I am really annoyed/upset at myself, I finally buckled last night and text her. Don't know why, was just feeling really down. I just text, "hi" to see what she said after these texts she had sent me. I feel even worse today because...."nothing" - not received a reply. That'll teach me, eh?!
destination_unknown Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 sorry sh! pick yourself back up and keep doin what you were doin before. dont let it get ya down, hey, all you did was say hi, thats not so bad.
Author SadHatter Posted March 24, 2006 Author Posted March 24, 2006 I think really, apart from breaking lots of hard work by contacting, I am more bothered that she still managed to play. She made it seem like she cared etc. by texting, "text back xxx". Even saying, "you don't have to ignore me if ur with one of ur gf's" which would even suggest jealousy. And then when I text her...nothing....that wold confuse anyone...
destination_unknown Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 hey there are 50,000 reasons that you havent got a reply yet, no point in being offended by it - why let yourself be offended?
CaliGuy Posted March 24, 2006 Posted March 24, 2006 I think really, apart from breaking lots of hard work by contacting, I am more bothered that she still managed to play. She made it seem like she cared etc. by texting, "text back xxx". Even saying, "you don't have to ignore me if ur with one of ur gf's" which would even suggest jealousy. And then when I text her...nothing....that wold confuse anyone... Sadhatter, she is playing a game with you. It's called: "Let me see if I still have my ex on a string. I send him a text with XXX on it and see how long it takes him to reply. Ok, he replied quickly so he's still on a string, always there when I need him. No need for me to chase him, he's still chasing me." This is why in my guide I make it clear that you should sit on a message from an ex and decide if you ever want to reply. But if you do, you should take some time before you reply. First to clear your head, secondly to let them know you're busy and they aren't a priority in your life anymore. Catch my drift?
Dinnj1 Posted March 25, 2006 Posted March 25, 2006 I just text, "hi" You had 'hand' .... and lost it.
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