TheSwordfish Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 I know this girls that likes me.... Thing is, she is actually really busy (she has two jobs, is busy with finishing her study, she is starting a sportsclub for disabled swimmers, and so on). There is lots of chemistry when we are together. We know each other quite well by now. I couldn't meet her in person during the last few weeks (busy with my job, and lots of other things), but I want to see her again. So I asked her if she wants to go out (to the movies) on MSN. She said she'de love to go to the movies with me, so I asked for her phone number to call her to make it a date, and I got that one right away. I told her I would call her, to decide on a time and place. She agreed, but told me she was really busy during the next two weeks. But after that, she has time. We had a long nice conversation. But question is what should I do? A.Call her tomorrow and make a date as soon as possible. (I would be ignoring her words) B.Call her next week on thursday or friday and make a date. C.Don't call her at all and take this as a rejection (don't think its like that).
Guest Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 I would call her next week thurs. or friday like you said. That way you don't seem too desperate, but still interested.
Kengne Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 I know this girls that likes me.... Thing is, she is actually really busy (she has two jobs, is busy with finishing her study, she is starting a sportsclub for disabled swimmers, and so on). There is lots of chemistry when we are together. We know each other quite well by now. I couldn't meet her in person during the last few weeks (busy with my job, and lots of other things), but I want to see her again. So I asked her if she wants to go out (to the movies) on MSN. She said she'de love to go to the movies with me, so I asked for her phone number to call her to make it a date, and I got that one right away. I told her I would call her, to decide on a time and place. She agreed, but told me she was really busy during the next two weeks. But after that, she has time. We had a long nice conversation. But question is what should I do? A.Call her tomorrow and make a date as soon as possible. (I would be ignoring her words) B.Call her next week on thursday or friday and make a date. C.Don't call her at all and take this as a rejection (don't think its like that). Don't be a nerd and call to make a date RIGHT right away. She said she's busy, so call her next week to make a date. K.
monkey00 Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 She agreed, but told me she was really busy during the next two weeks. But after that, she has time. We had a long nice conversation. But question is what should I do? A.Call her tomorrow and make a date as soon as possible. (I would be ignoring her words) B.Call her next week on thursday or friday and make a date. C.Don't call her at all and take this as a rejection (don't think its like that). a movie is the worst place for a first date. 2 weeks is way too long...its hard to tell seems like she could just be blowing you off with the busy thing. anyway if i were you, i'd play it cool and somwhere down the line after a week or 2 call her up to see how she's doing and set up a date.
Guest Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 a movie is the worst place for a first date. 2 weeks is way too long...its hard to tell seems like she could just be blowing you off with the busy thing. anyway if i were you, i'd play it cool and somwhere down the line after a week or 2 call her up to see how she's doing and set up a date. We know ech other quite well, a movie followed by having a drink downtown, is a nice date in my opinion, you have all the time to talk and something fun to do. We had coffee during work all the time, so doing that routine again, would be lamer.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 Well, we know each other quite well. going to the movies and drink something afterwards isn't a bad idea at all. Its like this. She gave me her MSN, then her phone number. She would not do that if she wanted to blow me off. I asked her phonenumber with the specific reason for setting up the date. She could just have said, I am busy I dont have time to go to the movies and leave it like that and don't give her number. She actually said she is busy right now, but has time in a while. But giving me her number and saying she wants to go out, make me want to call her. GNI! If I read the same book that claim that movies are bad dates, she's plying hard to get, just looking busy to make it a little more challenging.
tanbark813 Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 She gave me her MSN, then her phone number. She would not do that if she wanted to blow me off. That's not necessarily true. It's not uncommon for a girl to give out her number--even to a guy she doesn't even know--but then just blow him off. Sometimes they're too nice to say no. I'm not saying that this girl is doing that, but you can't make the assumption she's not. IMHO, your best course of action would be to call her in a week to set up a date. Suggest a specific day, don't just say "sometime". Have a plan. If she's interested she'll either accept or suggest an alternate plan. If she claims she's busy and doesn't suggest something else, then it's a blowoff. Everyone is busy and we all prioritize our activities. If she's too busy to schedule you then it means you're not a priority.
Author TheSwordfish Posted March 23, 2006 Author Posted March 23, 2006 She gave me all the signs.... after asking her if she would like to go to the cinema online.... and she gave me her numer... she told me she was busy.... I bumped into her twice (accidentally). And I called her.... And guess what, she said yes. She couldn't make it on the day I came up with, but she suggested the week there after. So, she was interested after all
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