Mary3 Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Guys what do you think this means ? Someone is talking to you via email on the internet dating site. They are really getting into knowing you and you exchange many letters. You suggest talking on the phone . They are either too busy or ignore your request to put a voice to the emails. What do you think it means when a guy wants to live your friendship only in email letter form ? He does not want to call you ?
ddnnee Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 1) sometimes the voice can be a put off for girls, or a turn on... in the case of ur guy, he must be afraid of putting u off with his voice. YEA it tends to happen like so - happened to me a few time, especially after picture exchange. yea, internet chit chat for 1 week everyday, after the picture exchange, they mysteriously disappear... Strange. I think i need to take pix of my abs or dick instead of my face... maybe that works better. 2) guy is too shy to talk on the phone? 3) maybe the guy has a girlfriend but doesn't want a trace on his cellphone with you. He's emailing 10 other girls besides you/this one person. I think internet dating sites are stoopid shyt because most people put false information on it. Ever notice that all girls love the same music: R&B, rap, and hip hop? all the girls love to "have fun", goto movies, etc... and all the guys post pictures of their abs. Also everyone on the internet is hitting on the same person as you are, and more all at the same time.
littlekitty Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 To me that means you're talking to someone who most likely isn't going to take this friendship into the realms of the real world.
Hungryhorse Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Sorry to hear that, if its any help I have had this a number of times over the internet, v frustrating and depressing. I generally now send a limit of 4 emails, if he doesnt suggest a date by this time he is not likely to, being probably married or with a girlfriend (of which I would say approx one in three men are on the internet) although they won't tell you as much. Some of them will even phone you up and then not ask you out which I find even stranger though I can see it is a an ego boost for the bored married man but a complete waste of time and kick in the teeth for the genuinely single. Any single guy looking for a girlfriend would want to meet up as soon as possible and check out all the possibilities. Don't spend a second more thinking about this timewaster and certainly don't take it personally, guys like him aren't worth it, you deserve better!
alphamale Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 What do you think it means when a guy wants to live your friendship only in email letter form ? It means he either has a wife or weighs 450 lbs.
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