Guest Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 I am 55 years old and my wife is 50 years old I have met a girl and we are just friends my wife thinks we are having a affair because I take her around due to no car and she is 45 years old My wife gets mighty angry when we talk about it there is no sex involved how can I help my wife get over her jealousy over her she thinks I am doing something behind her back which I am not what Can I do about it
KnowHowLoveFeels Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 Simple. Tell the 45-year-old woman to start taking the bus if she can't afford a car. She is not your friend. Don't talk to her again. Get a grip!
whichwayisup Posted March 17, 2006 Posted March 17, 2006 If you want this woman to be a 'friend' then invite her for dinner. Start including your wife. Let them meet. See what happens...Seriously. Watch your 'friend' and her reactions...Do you think she'll be 100% comfy around your wife? Do you think this woman has a crush on you, or is trying to pursue something abit more than a casual/buddy friendship? Has she asked you about your marriage? Do you confide in her, complain about your wife to this woman? If so, STOP. You are allowing yourself to develope an intimate friendship, with caring feelings, which COULD easily open the door to other things. I hope you understand where I'm going with this...
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