sexyLMC Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 well basically.. my ex asked me a little while ago to go on a break, he wasnt to sure how long it would be for. e.c.t a friend of his told me the break was because he was falling inlove with me and he was so so so scared.. but i didnt believe him.. i thought a break was to be apart from one another, but hes been really poorly recently so ive been looking after him sort of thing.. Anyway tonight... as i was helpng him out e.c.t i could feel him staring at me. which he doesnt usually do.. then when i looked up at him it was as if everything around me disapearded it was so strange. later on when i helped him into bed e.c.t i layed next to him to watch a little tele, and i closed my eyes for like 5minutes and he watched me, he thought i was asleep but i wasnt. he keeps tellin me also how amazing i am e.c.t what i want to know is.. if hes scared of love.. how do i make him realise its nothin to be scared of.. hes been through alot with people ex g.fs e.c.t.. so what do you think? just play it cool? plz help thnx u lisa xxx
MadDog Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Yeah Lisa, just play it cool. There's nothing you can really do at this point--it's up to him to figure out what he wants as far as a relationship with you is concerned. I'd give him a limited amount of time to think about things but if he doesn't come around eventually, it'd be a good idea to open yourself up to dating other guys. The worst thing that can happen is for him to put you on hold indefinately which isn't fair to you--a guy that would be really great for you might pass you by in the meanwhile. Good luck with things. MD
Citizen Erased Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 You know, if he is falling in love with you, then perhaps this is the way in which he needs develop those feelings, no distractions. Sneaking looks, casual hanging out etc... its the fun side of flirting and falling in love so make the most of it because trust me, it may have to last you a long time
MadDog Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 It's not as easy to find an FTF as you'd think. Most girls aren't into that and the ones that are are normally ho-bags--you'd have to deal with being sloppy 50ths or whatever number you are. If that's your attitude then why not just have a casual relationship with a girl? One where you go out, have fun, and do the deed if the mood is right but it's not a serious relationship. Then again there aren't too many girls into that either. Nevermind, we're screwed. Any girl we get with probably think we're gonna marry them someday. Oh well. MD
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