consumed Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 So I met a girl at my old work. We dated 2 months back but afterwards she told me she didn't feel anything and that she wasn't really looking for a relationship as she wanted to focus on her career. Relationships sort of scare her at this point. We kept talking online and about 1 month later she called me out of the blue asking if I wanted to go to a concert with her and some of her family. I accepted, had a great time and actually ended up spending the night at her place. To her it was just the one night with no phone calls afterwards and if we talked we talked. Last week she called me again asking if I wanted to go out somewhere with family again. I agreed and later that night we watch a movie followed by one thing leading to another. So last night we were talking online and I told her I was coming over although she didn't think I was the type to just come over like that. I did and it made her really happy and surprised her from what she said to me later. I spent the night and leaving in the morning I just didn't want to leave. We both couldn't let go. She told me a week ago that the last time we met she was questioning with herself weither she was falling for me but it scared her at the same time. I know I am but it doesn't really scare me because I think she's awesome and I would love for this to go somewhere. Anyways, I havn't slept since yesterday morning as we spent the night together again and got no sleep. I really want to see her again though, but I'm not sure when is good. I'm so tired I need to sleep when I get home and I probably won't wake until tomorrow but I don't really want that. I know last night she loved me being there and cuddling so I wanted to go over to her place tonight. I know she'll be really tired as I so is it a bad idea to stay there again with her...? Too soon? After the way things were left this morning, going home to sleep and not calling her or sending an email is not an option. But I would much rather drop by her place. I'm worried though because I don't want to rush things but at the same time I just really want to see her again tonight. Shoot me some advice. Thanks in advance. btw I should mention being a rebel sometimes is a good thing to her anyways. Like take last night talking online, she told me she was just going to bed but I said I would be right over and just logged off. She was really happy I came because she didn't think I would come over like that. I've sensed a few times sometimes she will say one thing but want you to do the other.
MadDog Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 I'd say just get some good rest. That way you keep from rushing things too much and you'll reduce the risk of either of you getting cranky from being so tired and starting a conflict. I miss those days when I'd not sleep so I could spend time with a girl I'm into. Oh well, back to my studies. MD
Author consumed Posted March 16, 2006 Author Posted March 16, 2006 wow did I get winded last night. I went over to her house to surprise her and she answered the door with this look on her face. She asked me to come in and then said she was glad I showed up because she was just writting me an email but felt it was better to tell me in person. Said basically she felt different or bad all day and that whatever has happened is not her. She said because of me she learned flings are not her thing and she has no feelings for me so basically it's be better if we called it quits all together and did not see each other any more. Gotta say I didn't see that coming. I left right then, what could I say... felt like crap all night.
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