longlegzs80 Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 In another thread that I wrote a week ago about this guy at my work who was giving me sure signs of interest. I haven't seen him since last Thursday and when I did see him, he was with guys and didn't seem to notice me at all. Why do guys first show tons of interest then seem so cold where they aren't going after the other person? I don't see this guy often, but I like to start it up again to see if there is interest or not. Why does it seem like I miss out on opportunities when it comes to men? I am shy at first and find it hard to approach the ones I am attracted too. Anywho, what do you think I should do, really confussed? Thanks.
monkey00 Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 Why does it seem like I miss out on opportunities when it comes to men? I am shy at first and find it hard to approach the ones I am attracted too. Anywho, what do you think I should do, really confussed? Thanks. im sure many women miss on chances. afterall we were raised on the concept that the man is the initiator/aggressor. maybe your shyness comes off as aloof/indifference which can = disinterest. you should be careful, body language is the easiest way (and most popular way) to read people. i'd hate to say but many girls i meet tend to have that shyness problem. however if i were him i woudlnt give up so easily....maybe he's just waiting for the right signs from you. anyway, give it some thought.
elijahBailey Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 well guys flirt too, as much as women, so... anyhow, what are the signs of interests that he's givin' ya...
Author longlegzs80 Posted March 15, 2006 Author Posted March 15, 2006 I explain it all in a different thread under GENERAL RELATIONSHIP called SIGNS HE IS INTERESTED...DOES HE WANT ME. That is not the exact title but it is in this section. Read it if you'd like. well guys flirt too, as much as women, so... anyhow, what are the signs of interests that he's givin' ya...
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