Simons Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 My ex sent me a link for birth day reminders, sometimes back in 2005 when we were still dating. I never responded to that link. Today I was going through my past emails and saw the email with that link. I clicked it, I wanted to register so i could add some of my friends. Well after the registering, I get a some notes that an email has been sent to my ex. Oh NOOOO!! I am freaking out right now. I am really f***ed. I was not intending to contact her, i just wanted to register to birth day reminders so i could add some of my friends. I was not a ware that the link was tired to her details. Please tell me i am not f***ed. I have been in no contact for almost 5 months, How can i mess up all these with a link????. I feel stupid. I hope she won't think i was intending to contact? it kind of lame i know. I just need your input and assurance. Thanks S
destination_unknown Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 It doesnt matter what she thinks, you can still carry on with NC as before. Its been five months and you have survived, well done! Anyway, most people are aware that these kinds of emails are automated. Advice: forget it happened and carry on with NC.
UT_longhorn Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 dude. dont even sweat it man. you've done 5 months of NC and im sure you've gained strength from it. this is a small pebble compared to the hufe mountain you've been climbing.
Author Simons Posted March 14, 2006 Author Posted March 14, 2006 Thanks a lot for your input. I have been doing great and very proud of it. I hope she doesn't get a head swell from this. The truth is I never intended to contact her. What good was the contact gonna do to me anyways? I don't want her back in any form. Back to NC.
Author Simons Posted March 15, 2006 Author Posted March 15, 2006 Hey, yesterday i got 3 private phone calls with no messages. I don't know if they were from my ex. I cannot think of somebody else who could block their numbers!. I hope she is not trying to start another drama.
destination_unknown Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 I guess thinking about the phone calls is pretty futile, if she wants to leave a message she can, though some people hate leaving messages. I suppose if you think it will be on your mind then answer and at least you will know if it is her and what she wants. If it is her and she does start with amateur dramatics then you can always hang up.
Dinnj1 Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 99.9% chance it was her. I had an ex who would disappear for 2-3 months then start calling with private/blocked #'s. Although I changed my #, till this day, I still jump and get nervous when I receive a blocked #.
Author Simons Posted March 15, 2006 Author Posted March 15, 2006 99.9% chance it was her. I had an ex who would disappear for 2-3 months then start calling with private/blocked #'s. Although I changed my #, till this day, I still jump and get nervous when I receive a blocked #. I am positive it was her, coz she used to block her number sometimes back and i never knew why, but i kinda got the idea much later. I cannot change my number, there is nothing left to spoil.
Dinnj1 Posted March 15, 2006 Posted March 15, 2006 3 calls in one day??? She won't give up that easily. Most likely, she'll call without block, or go one step further and stop by. g'luck
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