meejessica Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 Love - Hate Where is the line drawn? How long do two people go on living in the love - hate cycle? Anybody who has experienced living it will understand why I ask? Why do people stay, and some for so long? Why? Why is it so hard to leave? You know it's wrong when two people being together bring out the ugliest most negative hateful sides of their personalities. You never even knew you were capable of hating somebody so much, but at the same time you can love them???? Wouldn't you say its time to part? But then theirs that spark of hope or dream that things will change because today was a good day. Or was it, I mean today it was only the way he talked to our child that caused the argument. No relationship is perfect; right? Everyone has issues... right? "Marriage is hard work It takes two people who really want it to work" so on and so on. How long do you go on believing "you" can make it work? Why is it so hard to leave the other? It can't really be from just that little bit of love you might think you still share is it? No. Maybe it's because people aren't too fond of "change"? Or is it because were scared? But scared of what? Maybe one has to impress their family members and getting a divorce would make it all go to s***. Maybe some people just do not have any family to turn to for help? therefor can't leave if they wanted to. They are stuck. Or some think they can't live with out the security from the other? Even if the other doesn't even bring in the money, he will still be there "sitting" and just "waiting". Or maybe one really loves the other so they think they can change. Or one just can't change because they don't know how to love; all they know how to do is be iritable. This is just one persons experience that makes up just one microscopic piece of the puzzle of what is called a love - hate relationship. Wish I knew why we alloy ourselves to live in un happy places. We have such a short time on earth why not spend our time loving each other? But for some of us its hard to do when accompanied by the "one' who brings out the worst in ourselves and the other. And once that cycle begins it's so hard to get out of it; why? What really keeps two people together who truly love and hate each other? I do not know the answer. Maybe some of us have figured a part of it out. If you have, please share with me? I would love to know as much as possible about this subject.
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