ahgirl Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 Hello all, My bf of 8 months (known about 2 yrs before) and I are taking a break. I moved out. We talk and email a few times a week. We'll get together and go out to dinner and a movie. Spirits are good. He said that are status is "dating." He and I agree this break is good and time apart is important. (I was stressed about work and things so that is the reason for the break.) I know I need to to take care of a few things on my own and he does too. However, he said he is still confused and not sure what he wants. He cares for me deeply ( that I know). He is not sure if he wants to date to "see what else is out there" but I would need to end things if that is the case. I can't be a part of that. But he's also not sure when or if I am to move in anytime soon (like within the year). My question is: how can one be "confused"? To me the first step is to figure out if you want to break up or not. If not wanting to break up, then what is the confusion? And it has been 3 months of him not having a clear answer...what is a good timeline before I give him an ultimatium or have a serious talk. I don't want things to end..but why the wait on his part?? I am willing to give him the time and by pushing things I'll just push him away-but I dont think its fair to not have ANY clear answers![/i]
whats wrong with me Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 I have no answer maybe some one else does
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