Guest Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 I had a fight with my ex and he told me he wants to break up, I felt really bad and slept with a guy from work that I know for just as long as me and my ex were dating. I just wanted to make sure I don't get back with my ex because I felt we weren't happy and things weren't going well. I am very confused, I dont really like the guy from work in a romantic way but I see him every day and I have alot in common with him. My ex has alot of good qualities too that I like, but there are things I dont like, sometimes the way he acts creepes me out, and I think he is crazy. I dont think I feel romantic towards any guy right now and I dont want to have sex with anoyone. My Ex wants to forgive me for what I did and get back but I dont feel like I can, not after what has happened and there is also this other guy that I now have feelings for at work but I dont really want him as my bf either.. plus I see him everyday so it really makes it hard to get back with my ex. My Ex seems to be in alot of pain, and I feel bad but I think it would be wrong to get back together, i think he should go out with other people. Right now I feel I should focus on myself, school, new friends, and just having fun. I have been with my ex for almost 5 years and we havent done anything, things are same as they were 5 years ago, we didn't move out, and didn't make any plans together. I really don't know what to do in this situation.
MadDog Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 There are two things I suggest you do here: 1. Stay broken up with your ex 2. Just stay single for a while This will help you clear your mind and figure out what you really need right now out of life, relationships, etc. Good luck. MD
yawhatever Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 Women like yourself are so messed up, never know what you want or see things clearly..
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