blueskyeyes Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 I'm posting this for a (F) friend, I'll forward replies to her. ============================= My ex?boyfriend and I have been together for about a year. Prior to our relationship we were very close friends although we had only known each other for about 9 months. Just one of those friendships where we were two of a kind. Cutting to the chase...we argue....a lot! And w/o getting into details unless asked-he breaks up with me literaly every week! After a couple of days he'll call and apologize profusely that he's sorry he treated me so badly and that he won't break up with me again. But he does over and over. And when he apologizes I want so much to believe him. We've gone to one counseling session at his request and she told him to have both feet in the relationship and be rock solid for me. He promised and yet 4 days later another break up over some argument we've had. I'm certainly not perfect...however, I am trying....hard. For example, last night we got into an argument and I left his house only to return because I'd seen in the past 4 days that he was trying to amend his ways. However, when I came back (lapse 15 minutes) he continued to argue. He said something nasty we both agreed he shouldn't say and has said before. I left again....only to call and say I'd like to come back if he agrees to not argue....he said "that's your decision" I needed a mutual agreement to not argue. I feel like alll our problems are on "my shoulders". Has anyone even had a relationship like this and what should I do? Thanks in advance
tikigods Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 I think that your friend should break up with her boyfriend. After 9 months you shouldn't be playing "Im going ot leave you!!!" game. It sounds like they both need to grow up a little and then try a relationship later on
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