trying to get over she after being with her for more than 2yrs

[LoveMELeaveME]

It’s been 3 months since I broke up with my GF because she had feelings for someone else. We were together for a little more than two year and one day she tells me that she has these feeling for another guy; a guy I know. On one hand I’m glad she tells me instead of cheating on me, but on the other, well, it sucks.

 

With this kind of news, there really isn’t ever a good time to break it, but she decided to tell me on the week I have all my finals. I told her we would talk about it, but I’d have some thinking to do, plus I had major studying to do.

 

The week ended and then she brought it back up. I still didn’t know what to do. I told her I couldn’t be with someone that wasn’t thinking about me. So I broke it off and this is where I am today… still thinking about her.

 

Worst of all she calls me a few weeks later telling me who this guy is that she likes just because she doesn’t what me to hear it from someone else. It turns out to be a guy we all hangout with and a guy i thought of as a friend; he’s a part of our party group. I didn’t know how to take that. Things just kept getting worse from there.

 

Long story short, I just don’t know how to move on. Everyone talk about “no contact,” and I’ve been doing the NC/ZC thing. It’s been about a month since the last time I talk to her and about a week since I saw her – we are taking a class together. I still love her and miss her very much, and with that, everyday that passes the urge to contact her grows. I really don’t even know what I would say. I wrote her a letter, but haven't given it to her. Is it a bad idea to give it to her? What do I have to lose, I already lost her.

 

I know time is the best solution; I just hate it that it’s so slow. Time flies past you when everything is great and slows down in the worst circumstances. I’ve been reading a few of the messages that people post on this site about their situations. I hope someone can give me advice on how to keep going. I haven’t quite moved on, but I know it’s a slow and, at times, painful process. Thanks for reading this.

[whats wrong with me]

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