punkgirlco Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 So, if you want the backstory, check out my forum post "Broken" but heres the recent happenings As if the break-up wasn't awkward enough, I got a text last satuerday from my ex that said: "I just met your sister" UH-OH!!! I hadn't told my sister about the break up yet, since i had only seen her at church and then at breakfast and I didn't think the break-up was a sunday breakfast kind of conversation. But she hasn't met him yet, and was up in the city where he lives and decided she'd drop by his work and say hi. He didn't tell her about the break-up, I told her when I called after she had left. But this started him and I kinda talking, and I told him about some of the realizations I've made about my self and some issues I need to work on before I can commit and sustain a healthy relationship. He said he was speechless in a good way, and after that we were just having a nice conversation and like kind of flirting and having fun. My stuff is still at his apartment, and I really need it back, but I'm not sure what will happen if I go up there. He's really confusing in the way he's acting right now, like he normally would have been upset if my sister had just stopped by, but he said he wasn't mad at all, and then there was the flirting and stuff. Any thoughts?? Anybody done the whole get your stuff from your ex's thing before?? Normally I just leave it, but he has my portfoilo's and my entire cd collection, not exactly stuff I can just leave... Any tips?? This is getting rediculous....
whats wrong with me Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 Anybody done the whole get your stuff from your ex's thing before?? Normally I just leave it, but he has my portfoilo's and my entire cd collection, not exactly stuff I can just leave... Any tips?? take a friend with you that he doesnt like, you might be able to just get your stuff and leave without talking much.
Author punkgirlco Posted March 18, 2006 Author Posted March 18, 2006 I had a couple of my male friends offer to take me up there, but I'm afraid that might cause more drama.....
whats wrong with me Posted March 20, 2006 Posted March 20, 2006 take the 2 guys, drama or not....it wont last forever!!! get your things!!!! most likely if theres gonna be drama it will be there if you go alone take a girl or a guy!!!!
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