suzie sweet Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 Straight to the point been wiv me bf a yr now but have been friends wiv him for 3 yes he was shy when we 1st met but getting to know me over the yrs he became more relaxed with me.My former relationship broke up and thats when i started going out with my friend,I have 2 major problems ere WHATS WRONG WIV HIM??? 1st, he dosent like taking me out prefers cosy nites by the tv (i am very attractive so he`s not ashamed of me)in a whole yr he`s took me out 3 times he says he had a panic attack ages ago and feels uncomfatable in crowds and was on beta blockers one time to help him but stopped taking them 2nd problem weve only made love bout 9 times in a yr and only stayed over nite 4 times. It has been a little rocky splitting up few times then back 2gether the next week we just cant seem to stay away from each other i am so in love wiv him and vice versa and he is planning for our future so we can get a house and live 2gether, HERES THE QUESTION I NEED HELP WIV we broke up last wk and made up and had our 1st nite together last nite (sat) cosy nite in as usual bottle wine,meal etc i asked him to cum to the wedding were both invited to next wk he said NO (even though he promoised me he was gona change) so now i av to go on me own.2nd problem both my kids stayed out so house all to meself and GUESS WHAT? he went home, what man would given the chance refuse it,he was getting raunchy on the sofa but cum on girls not the same is it theres nothing better than waking up to a cuddle.Sex as got better wiv him cos at 1st he cudnt get hard on so went the docs thats improved and fine now ,he also getting more expert wiv me cos in the past he`s only had 3 relationships,SO PLEASE help me i dont know what his problem is and whether i cud live like this 4eva wiv him I really do believe he does love me infact i know he does.Thanks for reading xxx
JayKay Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 I think you need to be upfront with him and tell him what's bothering you. I don't know what's wrong 'wiv' him other than he sounds very introverted and possibly depressed. Also sounds like he doesn't have a lot of experience, so I guess he gets nervous and feels pressured to perform. I don't get the 'cum' on you part....that's kind of gross. I'd be insulted if someone came to my house, got raunchy with me on the sofa, did that and then went home. You need to tell him the relationship is not satisfying to you at all and that things need to change. He needs to open up and tell you what's wrong 'wiv' him that he's behaving this way.
Author suzie sweet Posted March 12, 2006 Author Posted March 12, 2006 I think you need to be upfront with him and tell him what's bothering you. I don't know what's wrong 'wiv' him other than he sounds very introverted and possibly depressed. Also sounds like he doesn't have a lot of experience, so I guess he gets nervous and feels pressured to perform. I don't get the 'cum' on you part....that's kind of gross. I'd be insulted if someone came to my house, got raunchy with me on the sofa, did that and then went home. You need to tell him the relationship is not satisfying to you at all and that things need to change. He needs to open up and tell you what's wrong 'wiv' him that he's behaving this way. Hi thanks for posting and yes i do feel insulted.. i dont understand what you mean byQUOTE. I dont get the `cum on your part`.....that`s kind of gross.
No Stress Lady Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 Hi thanks for posting and yes i do feel insulted.. i dont understand what you mean byQUOTE. I dont get the `cum on your part`.....that`s kind of gross. OP's grammar and writing style is pretty errrmmm, oh forget it: Translation: wiv - WITH cum on - COME ON (not "ejaculate" on) av - HAVE cud - COULD RIP our wonderful English language....................*SIGH*
JayKay Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 he was getting raunchy on the sofa but cum on girls Yeah, that sentence had me REALLY confused. In my day 'cum' meant 'ejaculate'
Author suzie sweet Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 A bit of confusement on my part sorry i type like im texting, What i meant is "come on girls we all like to wake up to a cuddle in the morning"?
blind_otter Posted March 13, 2006 Posted March 13, 2006 he was getting raunchy on the sofa but cum on girls Yeah, that sentence had me REALLY confused. In my day 'cum' meant 'ejaculate' JK are you in the US? That would explain a lot. I have an ex from from Scotland and I thought his emails were hard to read -- grammar was difficult to decipher. Different slang.
Author suzie sweet Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 hey love shack gang im sorry about my slang words BUT never mind all that some advice would be nice
JayKay Posted March 16, 2006 Posted March 16, 2006 Yes, Blind Otter, I'm from the US! LOVE your avatar by the way.... and to the OP, I'm not sure how to help you but you need to TALK to him and tell him why you're upset. Don't attack him or make him feel bad, though. It sounds like he's a nice guy, maybe just shy and nervous. Some people need a lot of encouragement and reassurance. Just tell him it makes you feel sad when he gets up and leaves suddenly, that you'd really like to be more intimate. Maybe he needs to hear that from you.
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