CStewart Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 Hello!!.....I have a bit of a problem that I would love your help on! Me and my GF have been going out for about 4 months now....I know its not much but... I know she love's me as much as I love her, lately we've been really open on our relationship ....yeah anyways hard to explaine hehe... My GF warned me about her friend being jealous of us.....witch I didn't mind cause I don't want her to be left out or anything....but for the past month or 2 I'v been ditched & Left out, cause her friend would get pissed cause of the time she's spending with me, and this is starting to stresse me out.....I keep telling my gf its ok but inside i'm not...its like I have a schedule/timesheet lol....1 day I get her then the next she gets her...lol does this sound right???.....and a nother thing her friend allways comes to the clubs with us.....witch gives me no time with my GF at all....at the club I feel like the 3rd wheel......I know she cares for her friend but to what extent... ...what do you guys think?????.....should I tell her how I feel...I know she woulden't get mad but I don't know what to say.....its funny though cause a couple of my friends allways ask "wheres is she"...then I say "out with her friend" then they tell me "is she going out with you or her lol" (drive's me crazy)....ANYWAYS HELP ME PLS!!!!!!
Guest Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 hello there! i think it would be better if you will tell your gf about it. because she needs to know. in that case, she knows what really is going on and she knows what you really feel. and also, she can help you sort things out. it happened to me before, but in a different kind of way...only similar to urs. when i had a gf (my first ever), my bestfriend got a bit jealous because me and bestfriend were together since gradeschool. we're inseparables. when i entered into a relationship (lately), she was jealous and she always want me to go with her...the problem is, my gf(i have a lesbian gf) dont want me to go anywhere without her on my side. my bestfriend gets mad with me and my gf....she doesnt even wanna talk to me before. so, i told my gf about it and she understands. she even told me that i can spend some time with my bestfriend but most of my time with her(my gf). i also explained my side to my bestfriend....now everything is ok. **so it would be better for you to tell your girlfriend so she can talk to her friend about your relationship. she should tell her friend that she have her own responsibilities and not only her friend. I believe that you are more important to her than her friend. dont worry, just a good explanation can clear some things to you, your girlfriend and her friend. goodluck..i hope everything will be fine.
babbah Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 hello there! i think it would be better if you will tell your gf about it. because she needs to know. in that case, she knows what really is going on and she knows what you really feel. and also, she can help you sort things out. it happened to me before, but in a different kind of way...only similar to urs. when i had a gf (my first ever), my bestfriend got a bit jealous because me and bestfriend were together since gradeschool. we're inseparables. when i entered into a relationship (lately), she was jealous and she always want me to go with her...the problem is, my gf(i have a lesbian gf) dont want me to go anywhere without her on my side. my bestfriend gets mad with me and my gf....she doesnt even wanna talk to me before. so, i told my gf about it and she understands. she even told me that i can spend some time with my bestfriend but most of my time with her(my gf). i also explained my side to my bestfriend....now everything is ok. **so it would be better for you to tell your girlfriend so she can talk to her friend about your relationship. she should tell her friend that she have her own responsibilities and not only her friend. I believe that you are more important to her than her friend. dont worry, just a good explanation can clear some things to you, your girlfriend and her friend. goodluck..i hope everything will be fine.
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