sazzya1987 Posted March 11, 2006 Posted March 11, 2006 I just broke up with my boyfriend over something so small too! I got mad at him because he was ignoring me and not listening to me. This is not the first time he has done this which is the reason I got mad and ended it. He would rather play computer games and talk about computers and that junk rather than talk about serious issues in our relationship and about meeting up the next time etc. I just feel like a bit of a break to sort out my issues may help in the relationship. I have messed up too much and always get mad, I need to find the calm part in myself before I can get back with him, if we get back together. I am not sure if it was the best thing to do or what, but its happened, he said he is hurt, I don't feel that bad right now, maybe later the shock of what I have done may sink in and I will cry. I don't know if I have done the right thing, part of me says I have and part of me is nagging saying I did the wrong thing. I don't know why I am writing this but I guess I need some advice from others on their break ups maybe? Or just some support to tell me or help me to calm down which I know I need alot! I wish I knew if I did the right thing or not because this half and half feeling is confusing and not nice. I know I am rediculous to break it up with him but I guess I gust got fed up with him acting the same way with not understanding and listening to me and just playing games when I try to communicate with him he just gets to ignoring mode at me because he wants to play the game and he gets frustrated if he gets beaten in the game. But anyway yea...
whats wrong with me Posted March 11, 2006 Posted March 11, 2006 I'm assuming your about 20 years old (1987) If thats true I feel for you. It seems these days guys around your age are like that He would rather play computer games and talk about computers and that junk rather than talk about serious issues in our relationship I really dont have any good advice but I can understand that his behavior gets on your nerves when I try to communicate with him he just gets to ignoring mode at me because he wants to play the game and he gets frustrated if he gets beaten in the game that is how my 10 year old acts...I dont think I could deal with that behavior from my BF
Author sazzya1987 Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 I'm 18 and his 20. I keep wondering wether its right to get with him because what you said is right, he is young and most guys that age are into computer games rather than being with their girl. He is comming today so we will probably try figure out whats going on and whats the best thing for the both of us to do.
whats wrong with me Posted March 14, 2006 Posted March 14, 2006 like I said I dont have ant good advice but I will tell you how I've dealt with this prob in the past. I stayed for 5 years, he never changed he just got older. He didn't work, he stayed at home playing video games and getting high (pot). He made the house a mess and wouldn't clean it, I had to do that when I got home from work. I left him. now hes 30, married and does the SAME THING TO HER!! my suggestion is leave him and stay gone!!
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