trone Posted March 10, 2006 Posted March 10, 2006 All, I have spent lots of time on LS since my breakup almost 6 months ago and all the inputs I got from here helped me a lot. I need to thank you all for your help. But especially during last couple weeks, I have not been feeling well and I figured our that it is mainly because of the fact that I could not let my pain go and thought about my ex instead of focusing on myself. I broke NC with my ex which made me feel even worse. So I decided to keep NC with my ex forever but I also think that I have to initiate NC with LS. Unfortunately, logging on LS is reminding me my ex and I keep questioning what we could have done differently. I thank you again for all your support and wishing you the best.
Art_Critic Posted March 10, 2006 Posted March 10, 2006 At first I wasn't going to reply.. that would be breaking NC Good luck.. and come on back ya hear ..
prfrogkisser Posted March 10, 2006 Posted March 10, 2006 You have taken a very important step, realizing you need to concentrate in yourself. Breakups are very difficult to handle but im sure it's great to know you have us to help you through those rough times. Hang in there. What you are going through is just temporary and like i say everything happens for a reason. You wont realize it until time goes by. Word to the Wise: 1. Let go of the past - Let go of emmotional wounds,dont let bitterness take root, learn to forgive and defeat disapointments. 2. Find strength through adversity - Trust and have faith on the purpose of trials and when life makes no sense. 3. Choose to be happy - its a choice. Live with enthusiam!!!!
swissair Posted March 10, 2006 Posted March 10, 2006 This is interesting -- I started out here in the "second chances" area... then moved to the "breaking up" area, followed a couple weeks later by the "coping" area... now I'm in the "dating" area so there is more here than misery, it just depends where you look -Trev
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