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over a month of no contact...ex just e-mailed me...WHAT DO I DO?!?!

Shattered Heart

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Shattered Heart Established Member

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I just realized something. I don't know what made me think of this, but it just dawned on me that the second e-mail I had gotten from my ex was from a brand new e-mail account she had created (because her new guy suggested it). That said, I'm sure she went through the process of updating her e-mail address book to include the contacts she had in her other e-mail account. So, given that she was faced with adding me to her address book or ignoring me completely, she chose to add me! BUT WHY? I could see her not deleting my contact info from her existing account, since that would require useless energy on her part. However, this is much different because she was already in the process of deciding who to keep and who to delete. Call me crazy, but these are the kind of things my mind musters up to wreak havoc on my psyche. WILL THIS PSYCHOTIC OBSESSION EVER END?!

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My ex still has me on her MSN (though I have deleted her).

 

Think nothing of it.

 

Like I said, if an ex really wants you, neither hell or high water will stop them from letting you know that.

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I just realized something. I don't know what made me think of this, but it just dawned on me that the second e-mail I had gotten from my ex was from a brand new e-mail account she had created (because her new guy suggested it). That said, I'm sure she went through the process of updating her e-mail address book to include the contacts she had in her other e-mail account. So, given that she was faced with adding me to her address book or ignoring me completely, she chose to add me! BUT WHY? I could see her not deleting my contact info from her existing account, since that would require useless energy on her part. However, this is much different because she was already in the process of deciding who to keep and who to delete. Call me crazy, but these are the kind of things my mind musters up to wreak havoc on my psyche. WILL THIS PSYCHOTIC OBSESSION EVER END?!

 

Like CaliGuy says, if she wants you back you will DEFINITELY KNOW. And if it makes you feel any better, it's totally easy to import and export contacts on e-mail accounts. So, it's possible that she didn't have to think once or twice about getting you onto the list, you just made it on there by default.

 

Just let go and focus on your life. Like I said before, if she wants you back she'll have to leave California and her longtime friend (now boyfriend) to get back together with you.

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Mary, go right ahead and read me. I'm an open book anyway, so this should be interesting. :)

 

Oh, and your tone is still pleasant, so I guess you no longer have it in you to dish out the toughness (at least to me anyway). I suppose, because of me, you are a changed woman. ;) You were once a dumpee. Now you're just a softee. :eek::lmao:

 

And since my curiosity is now getting the best of me, I'd have to guess that you are a middle-aged brunette who is average-looking. I have nothing to base that off of, as it is strictly a guess. But that's the mental image I have of you. And I say middle-aged because of all the wisdom you possess. If you turn out to be 18, I would be totally floored. :D

 

Shattered Heart :)

 

Okay I would say you are :

Intelligent

Loving

Faithful

Giving

Passionate

Non Game Player ( I dont mean PS2 ) lol

Good Heart

Decisive

Mature

Literate

How am I doing so far ?

 

My toughness is for those who need a wake up call and I will always want to help those who are in need of my tough love :) hehe. You werent the first person that got my wrath . We had one poster named Green and I worked on him for months but he never got a clue .

 

You have progressed so nicely !

 

I am actually a red headed ( more auburn ) darker color. Can you see the fire when I unleash my opinions on those who are being hurt and really want some help but need a jump start ?

 

Yes I was a dumpee and learned greatly from that. I have also been the dumper and can honestly say if I am not happy and have done all I can , I do dump.

 

As far as middle aged goes not sure what middle aged means other than I am over 30 :) I have been called a hottie quite alot and of course what you think of me would depend on what you like in a woman.

 

I am small. 5 foot 6 but petite. I am a size 4. Small framed . 125 lbs . All lean no fat. They say I have some hot curves and nice flat tummy. I have been told numerous times I have the body of a 21 year old. That makes sense to me because I am proud of my body and because I do like to dress nice and I feel about 22., lol Not sure quite how to act my age but I guess I will continue to have a strong drive and energy, I like someone who also has a strong drive. To be void of passion would be a empty life. So if you like a hot firey woman, here I am ! haha

 

I am an artist. I also love photography and have alot of shots I have taken of myself feeling sexy. lol ! I definately feel very sexy and I think its something that you are inside as a woman. Its not necessarily what you wear but what you exude so feeling sexy with a whisper of sensuality is important to me.

 

Also very adventurous. Like someone who likes to see whats out there in the world. Who likes to hike and camp and do outdoorsy kinds of things.

 

So there you go. Thats me in a nutshell.

 

Can you describe yourself. ?

 

Hope LS'ers will bear with us. I know this is not a dating site and I don't intend to turn it in to one.

 

Perhaps we can talk private and drive everyone crazy ! haha

 

Your turn :)

littlekitty Established Member

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Get a room!! ;):p:laugh::D

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A room with a view ? :p

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Tell it like it is, littlekitty. :) I don't know what it is, but Mary has become putty in my hands. She's like an M&M. She was a woman who once possessed a cold, hard, impenetrable shell. One caressing touch of my warm sensual hands, however, and she begins to melt under my intense heat. And I don't care what they say about them melting in your mouth and not in your hands, as she appears to be melting over several of my body parts. :eek::o:D Oh no, I know I'm gonna hear about this one. :(:D

 

Okay Mary, it's late here. I just got home from work and I'm hittin' the sack, so I guess you'll just have to wait another agonizing day to hear all about me. Oh, and you forgot one major item that describes me............A TEASE ;) LOL. As for us driving everyone crazy by talking in private, I get this feeling that if we keep it public, we'll be driving them even crazier. :p

 

Okay, off to bed *waiting and longing for my pic of Mary* :D

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Hey I think I want a pic of Mary too!!!!!!!! :)

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They're gonna need a room with a bathroom....! What....? To wash all that melted chocolate off of course!!! :D:laugh::lmao:

 

It's kind of cute really!! :)

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Tell it like it is, littlekitty. :) I don't know what it is, but Mary has become putty in my hands. She's like an M&M. She was a woman who once possessed a cold, hard, impenetrable shell. One caressing touch of my warm sensual hands, however, and she begins to melt under my intense heat. And I don't care what they say about them melting in your mouth and not in your hands, as she appears to be melting over several of my body parts. :eek::o:D Oh no, I know I'm gonna hear about this one. :(:D

 

Okay Mary, it's late here. I just got home from work and I'm hittin' the sack, so I guess you'll just have to wait another agonizing day to hear all about me. Oh, and you forgot one major item that describes me............A TEASE ;) LOL. As for us driving everyone crazy by talking in private, I get this feeling that if we keep it public, we'll be driving them even crazier. :p

 

Okay, off to bed *waiting and longing for my pic of Mary* :D

 

Yes, Shattered Heart :D I have been turned into soft cookie dough under your spell. All warm and delicious with a hint of chocolate chips wafting subtly in the air. As a testament to that fact , this is the second morning I baked choco chip cookies. Something is in the air ~ ! lol

 

That cold shell ( while reserved for tough love posters ) is now a softer more approachable kind which amazingly you were able to penetrate . How did you do that ? lol . It just hit me on day that I really liked the guy you were underneath all the pain. You were able to see the humor and wanted me to give it to you hard ! lol. (wait that came out funny, lol)

 

I love a soft sensual caress so watch out ! haha

 

I like the idea of letting the posters know how the saga of Mary and Shattered Heart might be doing. I don't want to get the Moderators or Members mad at us.

 

Anyone mad yet ?:o

Mary3 Established Member

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Hey I think I want a pic of Mary too!!!!!!!! :)

 

I think I can do that for you Lishy ~!

Mary3 Established Member

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They're gonna need a room with a bathroom....! What....? To wash all that melted chocolate off of course!!! :D:laugh::lmao:

 

It's kind of cute really!! :)

 

LOL ! Thank you little kitty !

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I'm jealous now; no more red head baker, baking me cookies :(

 

Oh well... got dumped by chocolate covered people in the bathroom... :lmao: :lmao: :lmao::D:p

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Well guys I have to say ....... MARY IS HOTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Damn I wish I wasnt into guys!!!!!! :)

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Well guys I have to say ....... MARY IS HOTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Damn I wish I wasnt into guys!!!!!! :)

 

red head and she bakes! Yes she is hot from the oven. :)

 

Where is my copy Mary? :)

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My ex still has me on her MSN (though I have deleted her).

 

Think nothing of it.

 

Like I said, if an ex really wants you, neither hell or high water will stop them from letting you know that.

 

Same here. My ex has kept me on his list even though he is in another relationship. Strange. I have deleted him months ago.

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Well guys I have to say ....... MARY IS HOTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Damn I wish I wasnt into guys!!!!!!

 

Hey! That's unfair. I asked first, and I never got a pic. :( Oh well, I guess that's the way the "chocolate" chip cookie crumbles. :D Oh, and Lishy, how much did Mary pay you to say that? :eek::p

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She never paid a dime - She is a BABE!

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Shattered Heart Established Member

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Well, the cat is now officially dead, as my curiosity has killed each one of its nine lives. Thanks a lot, Lishy. I hope you're happy :p:D

Mary3 Established Member

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Shattered Heart is HOT :) ! !!!Now off to work darn....I will respond to all these posts tonite

:love: blows a kiss to shattered heart :)

Lishy Established Member

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Ok Shattered you have to send me your pic!

 

I am not impatient but send it NOW!

Mary3 Established Member

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Well guys I have to say ....... MARY IS HOTTTTTTTTT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

Damn I wish I wasnt into guys!!!!!! :)

 

LOL ! Hey you should send me a pic of you Lishy :)

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Hey! That's unfair. I asked first, and I never got a pic. :( Oh well, I guess that's the way the "chocolate" chip cookie crumbles. :D Oh, and Lishy, how much did Mary pay you to say that? :eek::p

 

Haha ! Your pic was in your mail box when you posted this ! :bunny:

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Well, the cat is now officially dead, as my curiosity has killed each one of its nine lives. Thanks a lot, Lishy. I hope you're happy :p:D

 

lmao :p !!!!

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LOL ! Hey you should send me a pic of you Lishy :)

 

I sent you one honey!

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