lizzieTM Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Basically ive just started to see this guy and we went on our first date yesterday and i felt that it went really well and went away feeling happy and rang my friends on the bus home to inform them of the days events. Until i was talking to him on MSN when i arrived home and he said that i was distant and he didnt know how to take it. Now i wasnt aware that i was distant i just put it down to nerves. Then today he just said that i confuse him because he cant 'read' me like he usually can other girls. Now im worried that hes going to think im not worth the challenge... he said he had a lovely time but now all this has confused me hugely. I think that i could really like him but now im confused! Should you feel like this after your first date?? I mean im a virgin and all and i know for sure that he isnt and thats another thing that im thinking he might just not be interested when he finds out! Im pretty sure its not abnormal to be a virgin at 18 but you wouldnt think it! ahhhh i just need some advise! thanks for listening x:(
MadDog Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 lizzie, If a guy is interested, unless the girl starts acting like a bitch, then he'll keep pursuing her even if she seems a little confusing at times. When you're still getting to know someone, there will definately be misunderstandings until you can learn their nuiances. I would say just be yourself and let him figure you out. Trying to change yourself or the other person is the worst way to go about any relationship. MD
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