sexyLMC Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 well.. me and my ex now are on a break , he said he needed sometime to himself, and that im to clingy? but ive had a hard start to the new year and i think its down to that why ive become clingy. but.. the one thing i was wanting to ask. is how much space shall i give him before i text him or anything i mean a breaks a break but i do like to know hes ok? does that sounds bad? x thnx lisa x
Guest Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 i'm going through the absolute exact thing you are going through... i've turned into the psycho girl who calls him all the time b/c i miss him and i want him to be with me and i want to hear his voice... do not call him whatever you do... i've had the worst problem with this... occupying myself to keep from grabbing the phone... but give him time to miss you.. my man told me i kept smothering him...so of course he didn't want to be around me or answer the phone...finally he did and told me when he was ready to call me he would... and unfortunately i've got to accept that.. you can't make someone care about you... and if he has no interest in calling you.. then what have you lost??? my ex broke up with me b/c i couldn't give him space.. and i really didn't... i don't have many friends and i'm going through hard times and he couldn't deal with it... nobody can be your everything.... keep yourself occupied!! at least fake like your going on with your life and he'll start to wonder about you.. we've been broken up two whole days and i feel like my life is over... i cry all the time and just sit and think about him.... it's not healthy... men are attracted to girl's that can be independent and strong and have a life with or without them.... nobody wants a leech to suck them dry. i just hope i can heed my own advice.
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