lonely1_2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 i was with A. for almost a year... he seemed perfect in the beginning...they all do... but i really fell for him... well he started to complain that i didn't show him enough attention and wouldn't listen to him (he'd wake me up at 4am to talk when i had to work the next morning)...so i guess he decided to flip the switch... i bought a house with him agreeing to live w/ me and help pay the bills... well after two weeks he moved out b/c he said he was always bitched at and asked to clean (oh i'm so horrible) and how i treated him like a kid...and wouldn't make him a list of things i wanted him to do.. (sounds like a CHORE list for a child..) so he left me in this house alone.. and i hate every second of it... i never would have bought this if i had any doubt he would pack up and hit the road. anyway so these last two mths have been horrible... i don't have many friends here at all..so i guess i was depending on him for everything... and he got mad that i would call him all the time or beg him to stay the night, etc... told me he gave me several chances and i wouldn't change so he was done... that he loved me very much but couldnt be with me. i don't get it.. am i that bad of a person for wanting my boyfriend to call me and hang out with me??? he would always hang up on me when i called to voice concerns or ask him to come over... and lately he never would commit to anything he'd always say 'maybe' just incase someone else with better plans came along and then he wouldnt be obligated to me... so i called him today to get my house key back and he told me i'll mail it to you and hung up on me.... and i just lost it derek.. i feel so pathetic i just called him and called him and he ignored every single call.. i know i shouldnt call him but i just want to hear his voice and ask why??? i called his house and his dad said he's out playing pool with the boys... i can see i'm not on his mind.. he's 21 and i'm 23 and maybe that's my first problem... i just loved him so much...and i don't understand why he's such an a**h*** to me...i just feel so lonely and betrayed. all i did was love him.
lamar_84 Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 You seem like a very nice person, and you deserve better. Try your best not to contact him.
blah1234 Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 yeah, he sounds like a stubborn jerk. Sell the house and forget about him.
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