emmaUK Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Guys:- please can u list the things that in your eyes would put you off your partner n drive u right away. (apart from cheating coz thatz the obvious one ) also please can u say what sort of things women do that have the opposite effect - make u wanna chase her more.
SmoochieFace Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Guys:- please can u list the things that in your eyes would put you off your partner n drive u right away. (apart from cheating coz thatz the obvious one ) also please can u say what sort of things women do that have the opposite effect - make u wanna chase her more. What would drive me away - indecisiveness, contradictory behaviour, excessive nagging and controlling, and being a general dumbass. What would make me want to chase her... well, I don't *chase* after anyone but these things would make me more willing to stay once in a relationship - being respectful of me, not *taking away* those things I care about from me, not *downing* me for being myself, and being honest about her feelings.
jerbear Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Act stupid, annoying, indecisive, can't hold a conversation, closed minded, whiny, dependent, confrontational (even it I am right ie. sky is blue, 2+2=4) the opposite is somewhat true for me to chase or talk to her. Intelligent, decisive, conversational, open minded, independent, "strong" as in holds her stand but knows when to back off.
Simons Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 thinking she can use sex to get what she wants from me
tanbark813 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 One thing that really bugs me is when a girl is disrespectful. Not only in regard to things like openly flirting with other guys or something, but minor things. A lot of women (and men are guilty of this too) kind of make fun of their SO in front of friends. Not just good-natured ribbing, but putting them down to be funny and then following up with "I'm just joking!!!" That bugs the s*** out of me to the point where I'll come back with some pretty nasty insults if a girl tries that on me. Something that would make me chase a girl more is her chasing me back. One-sided chases are dull.
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