CastorTroy Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Question for the "other women" -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Ok here is something i dont understand Im sure there are women who sleep with married men for the thrill of it. Just like there are women who are lied too and find out too late that the man they are sleeping with is married. But what makes women who sleep with married men keep going on with the relationship? Are there any women who would sleep with a married man knowing they were married?
erika2610 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Question for the "other women" -------------------------------------------------------------------------------- Ok here is something i dont understand Im sure there are women who sleep with married men for the thrill of it. Just like there are women who are lied too and find out too late that the man they are sleeping with is married. But what makes women who sleep with married men keep going on with the relationship? Are there any women who would sleep with a married man knowing they were married? I slept with a man knowing he was married. I worked with him, and eventually fell for him. I never intended to. I never thought I would be an OW. I was at a low point in my life, and he knew that, and knew I was an easy 'target'. I stayed with him because I was happy with him at the time. I believed everything the lying scum told me. I believed he was unhappy, and would eventually leave his W. After a year, it was evident he was just a big fat liar. I finally decided to leave. Why do you ask anyways?
AZKHO Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 I have slept with a man knowing he was married. I just did it because it seemed like the thing to do. It started out causual, then we became emotionally attatched and soon enough, it became a "relationship" s*** happens, never wanted to be a homewrecker, just happened.
Walking away Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 I didn't know that my MM was married until much later into the relationship. At that point, and I know it isn't an excuse, I was very emotionally involved. I raged and tortmented myself about his marital status. Stopped contact...you name it. But, the pull was so strong and he pursued me so efficiently...my feelings got the best of me. So, yes, I too, slept with a married man.
Sasperilla Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 After a year, it was evident he was just a big fat liar. I finally decided to leave. Why do you ask anyways? Read his previous post - he is looking for ways to persuade someone to sleep with him, despite the fact that he is married. :sick:
erika2610 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Read his previous post - he is looking for ways to persuade someone to sleep with him, despite the fact that he is married. :sick: Oh ewwww
catgirl1927 Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Why not just get a divorce? Then you can sleep with whomever you want.
Author CastorTroy Posted March 9, 2006 Author Posted March 9, 2006 Sasperilla I never said I wanted to seduce women!!! If i wanted to know how I would ask. The question was why does the other women stay? In my specific case, If i went to the other woman and said "look im married, still want to sleep together?" I told the truth, if we sleep together cool, if not, thats ok too. What is it with the people in this forum. The topic of the forum is other man / women. Are my questions that way out of line? It really sounds like there are alot of women scorned out there. take it easy!!! before you know it you will be old, ugly and unwanted. It happens to everyone! enjoy the ride people, enjoy the ride
scarletletter Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Yes, I had a sexual relationship with mm knowing full well that he was and is married. I am also married. We sought each other out, found each other and have been going strong ever since....that was 8 months ago. We both are in marriages from hell and awaiting divorces. We both got into this with open minds, knowing full well what we were getting into and where it might lead. What we didn't expect was to fall in love so quickly. It happens...now we are just dealing with that. I will also add that my relationship was very planned. It was not a "jump in the sack" thing or a one nighter. We actually talked for a long time about what we were missing in our lives and what we wanted from each other. When we finally did have sex, it was incredible because we were already so into each other emotionally.
Sasperilla Posted March 9, 2006 Posted March 9, 2006 Sasperilla I never said I wanted to seduce women!!! If i wanted to know how I would ask. The question was why does the other women stay? In my specific case, If i went to the other woman and said "look im married, still want to sleep together?" I told the truth, if we sleep together cool, if not, thats ok too. What is it with the people in this forum. The topic of the forum is other man / women. Are my questions that way out of line? It really sounds like there are alot of women scorned out there. take it easy!!! before you know it you will be old, ugly and unwanted. It happens to everyone! enjoy the ride people, enjoy the ride Hey Castor! Cool it! I said that a bit tongue-in-cheek, don't take it so seriously! Anyhow, on a serious note...if you went to another woman and said "I'm married, wanna sleep together" and she says "OK", NO that still wouldn't be right. What would be OK would be this: You go to other women and say "I'm married, wanna sleep with me", they say "OK then". Fine so far. Then you have to go to your wife (remember her) say "There's nothing wrong with you, but I really want to sleep with other women and still be married to you". Now, if she says "Fine, I'll go along with that and still be faithful to you" then it's OK. Or if she says "Fine, as long as I can sleep with some caucasian hotties too" then that would be fine too. Of course there is always the chance that she says "WTF?!! You stupid jerk, I never want to see you again" or "How could you ask this? You made a promise to me, doesn't it MEAN anything to you"? Think about all of these very carefully and then make your mind up. Remember you are not just making a decision for yourself. YOu are making a decision for how your wife's life is going to turn out, even although she has absolutely no idea.
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