becareful what you choose

[angelica1000]

I was married to a man for twelve years. The whole time we were married he treated me like dirt and had quite a drinking problem one night and took my kids to a hotel and decided never to go back. We got our own place, we were happy for seven months. All of a sudden he got drunk one night and tore up everything we had in our apt. I got a restraining order and moved. He would make his presence known. Finally I got tired of moving and went home to give the kids some kind of security. Wrong reasons I am now wo unhappy. It makes me sick for him to touch me. He is good to me but he did so much to me before. I thought I could forgive him but I cant. be careful

[CaliGuy]

I was married to a man for twelve years. The whole time we were married he treated me like dirt and had quite a drinking problem one night and took my kids to a hotel and decided never to go back. We got our own place, we were happy for seven months. All of a sudden he got drunk one night and tore up everything we had in our apt. I got a restraining order and moved. He would make his presence known. Finally I got tired of moving and went home to give the kids some kind of security. Wrong reasons I am now wo unhappy. It makes me sick for him to touch me. He is good to me but he did so much to me before. I thought I could forgive him but I cant. be careful

 

I'm sorry for your troubles. It really puts my own situation into perspective. Can you move out of state, somewhere he can't find you?

[BetterKarma]

I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. My thoughts are with you.

 

I don't know all the details of your relationship however, I do know that children see, hear and can sense more than you might think. IMHO, maybe it might be better off for them to see their parents happily separated than miserable together.

 

Have you thought about the possibility of going to counselling if you really intend on staying with him?