RedRose3373 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Hello All As you all know I was dating a MM for over 3 years. He said he was going to leave his wife & be with me for the last 1 1/2 years of our relationship. When he didn't leave for the 15th time, i was fed up & didn't want it anymore, so i walked away. It was hard, but i did it. I never thought i'd get away from him. I really thought that he was going to leave, but never did. Well I got away a bit over a month now & am dating a GREAT SINGLE man. It feels soooooooo good to be out of that trance I was in when dating the married man. I realized ladies, that MM don't leave their wives. As much as they say it, reality is is that they don't leave. So for those of you still waiting around for him to leave, don't do it. Get out as soon as u can. U have another life after the affair with your MM that is out there waiting for u. Don't waste your time any longer on this man. You all including myself deserve to be happy with a single man! I am happier now then i've been in a long time. I am so proud of myself!! Ladies if i could do it ANYONE can!!!
whichwayisup Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Nice post RR. And I'm glad to hear that you're doing so well and living life once again! Stay strong, and whatever you do, don't EVER allow yourself to get sucked back into his life -Even if he begs you, shows you divorce papers. Your MM isn't worth it!
Author RedRose3373 Posted March 7, 2006 Author Posted March 7, 2006 THanks Wich NOOOOOOOOOOOOOo there is no way that i'd go back to my MM. Even if he showed me SIGNED divorce papers, I would never get back into that. He is everything that I DON'T want: a lyer, a cheater, manipulator etc. I don't want that for a husband. IF he cheated with me, Sorry but he's cheat on me. There is NO WAY that i would EVER trust him, EVER!! My new man is WONDERFUL & i would never give him up to go back to my MM. NO WAY IN HELL!!
whichwayisup Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Take things SLOWLY with the new guy. You still have alot of emotions and feelings for your MM, even though it is over. Just don't rush into things with him.
Walking away Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 Good job Red Rose! I have been reading your posts closely. I know that I will be where you are soon! You are an inspiration to me....Thanks.
Guest Posted March 8, 2006 Posted March 8, 2006 Well said. Live by this... WE ARE TREATED THE WAY WE ARE ALLOWED TO BE TREATED! Stop letting Married Men get the upper hand. I am sick of women being their sex mat whenever its convient for them. Also...The most imprtant point we ALL know is true, but deny anyway...... They dont leave their wives. They dont leave their wives. They dont leave their wives. They dont leave their wives.
Author RedRose3373 Posted March 12, 2006 Author Posted March 12, 2006 HELLO its been over 2 weeks now with the new guy & things are still going great. I don't even think about my ex MM anymore & IT FEELS WONDERFUL! I am sooooooo proud that i got out of what i was in, there was a life waiting for me & i found it !!
Walking away Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 I, too, am out of my relationship with my MM. Five days and counting. I am doing well also. I think the key is to just LET GO. It is the hardest thing to do, but the most liberating thing to do when it is finally done. I, too, am looking forward to a wonderful life without my MM in it. All my best.
Author RedRose3373 Posted March 12, 2006 Author Posted March 12, 2006 Good For U Walking Away U Could Do It, If I Did It!! Good Luck I Am Here If U Need Help
Walking away Posted March 12, 2006 Posted March 12, 2006 I am holding strong. Thanks for the support. I am so happy for you RedRose!
Author RedRose3373 Posted March 13, 2006 Author Posted March 13, 2006 Thanks WA It does get easier, trust me & to be honest with u, if i could do it, ANYONE can We all deserve to be with an available man & to be #1 None of us deserve to be second best!!
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