Audrey20 Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 I read the threads on this board almost daily for strength. I rarely ever post because it is hard for me to know what I am feeling most days. Do I trust his words - do I trust him? Back and forth, back and forth. This post is really a declaration that I am beginning the breakup process starting with the mental shift of knowing that my relationship with my fiance is not healthy for me. It is not about being paranoid or insecure as much as it is that he is not capable of ending a relationship (emotional/sexual/now emotional again) with a former student of his. He assured me he would handle the situation when she started contacting him but I have found that he has continued to encourage her contact. I don't have to think much on this one - I don't want this relationship if he can't get her out of it. However, he has to get his stuff out of my house. So today is the first day of the process. No contact will follow as soon as I can get to that point. I am thankful for the wisdom that comes from this board. I know I will hurt from the breakup but the potential harm to my soul from staying in a relationshp such as this would kill me. Thank you all, A20
riobikini Posted March 7, 2006 Posted March 7, 2006 'Bravo!' Audrey. Just remember the breakup, itself, will not kill you. Stay in the forum, for now. You'll need it. And it's gonna be OK. (Smile) -Rio
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